Virgin Territory

The other day, I watched Virgin Territory on MTV, and it was amazing. I instantly connected with 75% of the people in it (3/4 people).

Spoiler

I loved Lisa because she was really straight forward about how awkward things were for her in terms of her questions and thoughts on intimacy. I also empathized a lot with her story, because I shared a lot her sentiments when it came to her and her fiancé’s vow of celibacy.


I also loved Domonique, because she was blunt, really fun, and not afraid to say that being a virgin didn’t stop her from living her life. I loved that she addressed some of the struggles she faced as someone who just wanted to experience love, marriage, and commitment before giving that part of herself to people because (and I quote), “These boys ain’t loyal.” (And also it was funny when she said she thought people “tossed sex around like a ball.”) I also empathized with her severed relationship with her parents and their divorce.


I thought Kyle was really interesting. He was a great guy who was just saying he wanted to be in a committed relationship before he just gave himself to someone and that he thought others thought of that as a weird notion. I also thought the struggle he had with telling his friends he was still a twenty-something year old virgin after so long was interesting. (I also loved the point he made that he and Dominique made about people telling them they didn’t look or act like virgins—what does a virgin act or look like?

I guess the thing I loved most about the way the show was presented was that they focused on the people’s lives at hand, and that it wasn’t just about their being virgins, and that it was more about their journey as individuals. I also thought the people were very relatable.


If you watched it, tell me what you liked or didn’t like about it. If you didn’t like it, feel free to comment about that too.

 

man im glad you showed me that in fractions​

 

funny :)

 

Virgin Territory? Pssh.

Dating Naked is much better.

 

i like the show. but i prefer ppl with their clothes on.

 

Would it help if they filmed it entirely in the dark?

 

thanks

 

having sex is immoral and indecent but being a virgin is worse.

 

I happen to be a virgin and love being one.

 

I'm getting to the point where I'm getting close to thirty and still a virgin. And I flat out don't care about that. Sex is very low on my priorities. And I'm not comfortable being touched casually by others so why would I have any sort of desire to have sex with someone?

I'm an asexual. And I'm thinking I might be sex repulsed when it comes to the thought of me in that position. The thought kind of scares me a little and not many things scare me.

 

SAME HERE

 

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There is no difference between virgin and people who had sex. The only thing is the pressure that society put us through, that lead us to high expectations about it, and make us feel bad because we are not doing it right, at the right time, at the right frequency, etc..


Sex is good? Sure! But there are alot of great food around the world that I've never tasted (because the world is big, and every place has its own food), but because there is no pressure to "eat it all" we don't care.If you let it, even after you have sex you will still "act like a virgin" (over preoccupied) because you will never truly know if your performance was great/ok/bad , or not following a norm etc.
Just be happy, "saving it" or not will not make you a better person.

 

Many beg to differ. Me being one. No offense of course.

 

Some people like "x", some people don't. It doesn't really matter.

 

I'm aware.

 

why does this thread exist

 

You've seen worse, some probably made by me in fact :D

 

virgins are people too, end the oppresion

 

yes, i am completely oppressing myself.