Should I, or should I not?

2 months of school left. Exactly 38 days.

Theres this girl named Crystal, we got into a.. what can I call it??? Lets say that we had a minor fight. Me and her were gonna go to my schools prom, and blah, blah, blah. A problem came out of that.

I still like her though.

To keep it short and sweet, do I ask her to go out with me (around here, asking someone out is askin them to be GF/BF.) or not. What do I have to loose right. Our relationship is already going down the drain so why not right?

 

Let's put it this way buddy...if you don't you're just gonna keep wondering what would happen if you asked, savvy?

 

Go for it dude... I'm sure if you show her that you care about your relationship, she will most likely say yes. If you want answers in life, you have to face them head on... or spead the rest of your life knowing what would had happened. Good luck! ^^

 

Well..what happened in the fight? Did it get really heavy on the words? Did it get phisical? Or was it just a small fight of words? And,do you think she likes you too?? Those would matter,I'd think...If it wasn't that bad of a fight,or if she likes you too,I think you should give it a shot.

(I may not be the best person to ask..considering I've never had a boy friend. But I'll try to help if I can..)

 

It was only a minor fight. She isnt talking to me anymore though. so yeah, it cant get worst than that right?

 

Go for it. You never know untill you try.​

 

Alright, thanks for the support, Ill let you guys know what happens tomorrow.

Im always the supporter, but now it seems like Im the one in need of support, and I got it, so once agaib thanx. :)

 

Go for it! Things like this can change your whole life. If you don't....well..

 

Guys, I am so sorry :(

Heres how my day went:

I was planing on asking Crystal after school. Around 2nd period a friend of mine started being racist. Im half Costa Rican and half Canadian. He started talking crap about Canadians for a while until I got pissed off. I called him out to fight me after school. He was too much of a b***** to fight me but yet he was talking all this crap. He didnt want to fight me until all my friends pressured him unto fighting me. Still he was talking crap. Im a good fighter and all, but I was still nervous since I hadnt fought in a while.(Around a yr) So all day I was nervous about asking Crystal out, and having to fight Yerod. At the end of the day me and everyone that wanted to see the fight showed up at the back of the high school.(were the fight was gonna be at) . At the last second he calls it off (obviously he was scared to fight me) So I won the fight without having to hurt him, since I knew I could beat him, I mean I come from Trenton (a place with many "gangsters" that are mostly black. U know how white people are scared of most blacks.) and Yerod is white, you know how whites barely ever fight and go through what I had to go through with all the gangs and the fights. As soon as he told me that, I began toward the school to Crystal's locker to ask her out. I get to her locker and she isnt there. I ask my friend Marcus were she is and he says she already left. :(


Sweet and short version:

I was supposed to be in a fight. At last second the kind punks out. I go to ask Crystal out at her locker and I found out she already left.


Lke I said Im so sorry guys. I wanted to ask her today so I wouldn't let you guys down, and myself down. I tired but was unable too. I swear on my life that tommorrow I will ask her out if its the last thing I ever do.

As you can see I had a pissy day, as if god hates me!

 

That's ok, we all have pissy days like that.

I'm sorry you couldn't ask her out today. Good luck tommorow!​

 

Try again. You'll eventually find her. xD

 

You've got at least 50 years left (hopefully) so I wouldn't really rush to get a girlfriend. Why don't you settle things down with her first, and then go for it? Preferably, get her talking to you again... o.o

 

Oblivion19929, did you ask her out?

 

You've got at least 50 years left (hopefully) so I wouldn't really rush to get a girlfriend. Why don't you settle things down with her first, and then go for it? Preferably, get her talking to you again... o.o

yeah, I agree. I was in simular situation once. Asked her out and she didn't talk to me for a hell ofa long time. Yust dont rush it. Wait like me because I did that and now i'm cool with her again, she is talking to me.

 

I asked her, she said yes!

Great job everyone, now the only problem is that I dont know if I like her anymore, but Im sure I can solve that disaster by myself.

 

Go for it d00d! =D

EDIT: Oh....Well glad everything turned out alright! =D

 

Dude,that's great!! And,what do you mean that you don't know if you like her?? You tried so hard,and feelings don't dissappear overnight....

 

(now by typing "you, you would really mean yourself? right? XP )

Lol, gee, sounds like you pissed her off or something?
Rushing in a relationship is another thing that would be really bad, and unhealthy, but getting to know more about that person is really something you should look out for, and see if she's the right one for you. But otherwise, lol, man just go for it, if that's what your heart's telling you to do. ^-^

 

So... were you lying when you said...

 

No no, I meant him. unless he's like 80, which I doubt, then he probly has at least 50 years...

And dude, you wondering whether you still like her is just your mind being paranoid. All you have to do is imagine life without her in it, and you'll remember your feelings.