On-Line Dating

well, I'm certainly not going to try and stop anyone from online dating, as it seems to work well enough for some of you, I just feel its pointless, and that would be my final statement, and with it I'll be off from this topic

~Midnight rose

 

How the hell is it pointless? Finding love online? That's pointless? So, you think finding that special someone online is completely pointless? Pfft, poppycock. Not true what so ever.

My point exactly. I mean, you never know...

 

online dating is so sketchy. especially because people can become completely different people, i'm not saying everybody is like that. bu seriously a true relationship can last if you can stand eachother face to face. i mean spending hours together in a day is a loot more meaningful then saying "hi wsup. i love you." i guess i'm being hypocritical because i did have an online relationship and we had phonecalls but it was SO FAKE. i hated it so i just stopped talking to him, and i didn't even miss him. but hey, anything's possible you can meet your soul mate anywhere.

 

OMIGAWD! I havent seen you in liek, forever! Hi! =D

And, people can become so different in real life dating. And people can spend the day together chatting online too and you have to trust and believe the person when they say they love you or else you could never have a good realationship with him/her. And even if someone spends the day with you, it might not even be because they want to.

 

OMG HAI !!

Back on topic. I think that it's a yes/no thing because it teaches people how to interact with others and get in touch with their feelings, but on the other hand people can lie because the other person can't see them.

 

Well, then the person will have to trust the other person they're dating and believe them. I mean, what's a realationship without trust, right?

 

So true, but you never know what the other can be thinking.

 

But then again, it goes back to one thing: trust.

 

to make online dating work you need trust and you need to be faithful to your partner.

 

Yes yes we all know trust is the key to a perfect relationship, but still it's the internetzz, LAWL.

 

My point exactly. ^^ I'm glad you understand where I'm coming from.

Whatev you say.

 

You'd know , right? Xd, I sorry.

On Topiczz: Well, I personally would never on-line date. Reason? In real life, (I hate to admit) I'm kinda-sorta a shy person. On here, I can laugh, talk, and do stupid **** without worrying about the consequences (meaning in personal life, I could always be banned, lol). So, with my experience of not having one (if you dun follow, slap yurself, than go to sleep, you've stayed up too late), online dating seems a lil' fake.

On the other hand, because I don't have to go face to face with this person, they could more easily (did I say that right?) learn about me. (pedophilez...) It all comes don to personality, and of course, that stupid T word: Trust. Trusting yourself, and your online partner to be completely truthfull. Like I said, I'd rather take my chances in real life, than risk online dating. My opinion, take or leave. At least I got post +1. :3

 

...O.O Okay, that didnt ****ing make any sense to me...I'm sorry, but what does that have to do with proving your point?

Welp, glad you see it that way. And, well, it's okay to me if you would'nt want to risk online dating.

 

I think online dating is good for some people but not for others.

You have to be really careful of what you say, how you say it, how much you want your GF/BF to know, and you have to be very trusting.

AKA. I wouldnt be able to Online date. But it does work out for somepeople, and for other people it doesnt.

 

I think online dating is...ok.


When it comes to people "dating" each other like, on Myspace, I hate it. Jesus, Myspace is home to like, thousand of sexual predators, yet...a girl from Pennsylvania is dating a guy from Cali. What the hell?

Now using a site like EHarmoney...I say that's ok. It was meant for people to find a date, unlike Myspace.

It depends for me. =\

 

Dating online or in real life, you are going to meet sexual predators. There are just weird people out there and yes, online some people can hide a lot better their true natures, but there are many people offline that also play games and aren't 'real' with their intentions or their pasts. Myspace has some wackos as would any forum place like LJ etc. I also wouldn't consider wanting to date anyone on myspace and feel that if online dating happens, it should be with someone a person has known a while and chatted with and well, they are friends of some sort prior to considering such a thing. Everything found online can be found when not there. It just seems there's more of an abundance of people playing games online probably because they can't find anything around them.

Parents really need to educate their sons and daughters about these sorts of people online and off so that 12 year old kids aren't sending naked pics of themselves etc to these people. I have no idea why that happens at all other than kids are wanting to explore and be rebellious, because naivety just doesn't seem to cover it, but parents need to monitor more.

 

Online dating was never said to be for "kids". Talking to sexual predators does not mean online dating half the time. SPs (I'm lazy to type) aren't "dating" the teenagers they just cyber with them, send them porn and that ****.

Online dating is an actual relationship between two people through cyberspace. Myspace's slogan is "a place for friends" not "a place for online dating". Same goes with every blog site, LJ, Xanga, gaia, facebook, etc, etc. Those places aren't ment to be used for dating.

Anyway, my opinion: Online dating is great. Places like, eHarmony and GeekLove(I think that's what it's called) allow you to meet people from thousands of different places, so many choices. Although, people can easily on the interweb, I still think it could help. =/

 

What about a place like kh-vids? xD That's where I met Koneko.

 

Yeah! I met Dual Wielder here.

 

Like I said before, what about kh-vids? XD

First of all, how will online dating lead to a predetor going to your home, knocking on your door saying "Hello? Is Johnny home? I want to rape him."

Only real stupid people would give someone they hardly know over the internet they're addresses or even giving them naked pics of themselves. And what if that special someone can't be found where you live and the only way to find that special someone for you is to start online dating, such as me? I've found my love over the internet without sending any naked pics of my self or being raped.