my life sux

ok thanks. i will try. i dont think i can give up on her

 

dude just **** her in the *** and be done with it

 

You will with time. And the truth is you'll eventually find someone who ends up being better in a lot of ways and with whom you identify yourself greatly.

 

yea i think she is that one

 

you said you liked her since grade 5... what grade are you in anyway??

 

8th................

 

You're still a young'n regarding this issue then. You'll grow out of this and you will find someone better.

 

woah 3 years - i liked a guy for 5 - hehe but he dated a gal i hated so i yeah got over him

 

she dated the dude i hated with all am heart but that dident work

 

i think that if shes just going to haye you for no reason after you have been really good friends, then you should just move on, you deserve better then people like that!

 

What she said

 

he agrees don't listen to him

 

yeah i agree don't listen to me

 

i dident plan on it

 

didn't i tell you don't listen to me?

 

No, no no. You are in 8th grade and you've had a crush on her since 5th grade. You say that this guy she's known a month came up and gave her a crap necklace and she was fine with it whereas she told you she didn't like the one you gave her...

First off, she said she liked you 6 months ago? So, did you tell her you liked her? Did you guys even hang out or date or anything? It doesn't sound like it. It seems like you didn't tell her much of anything. If you really care about her, tell her so. If you did, and she's doing this...ask her what's up. You have a right to know.

As you grow up you are going to hear the words 'nuh uh', 'no way', 'i wouldn't date you if you were the last man on earth' etc etc. Rejection is part of life and you do need to accept it that if a girl doesn't feel mutual with your feelings, that's not love on your part. It becomes obsession and can become really stupid. It's one-sided. You DO have to accept the word 'no'. Whether you are man enough or not to be her friend after, well, that's your call, but either way you have to deal with the hormones on your own or you need to move on. So...be prepared for the possibility that she may or may not feel as you do.

So, come clean with her if you want her to ever know clearly your feelings for her because this background jealousy and stress you are putting yourself under is not good and it's hurting you a lot. Her answer should determine what you need to do. If she says she feels the same way 'YAY!'...if not, it's a let down. If she and you felt a way before and her feelings changed...you have to let go and move on. Weigh your options then when you know things for sure are one way or the other. Heck, post here when you actually know for sure. It's hard to help you when no one knows what the girl's feelings are, k? I hope you feel better.

 

*gives happy cookie*

 

u serious u gave her a really nice looking necklace but then sumone else gave her a quater machine necklace and she loved it? man thats ****ed up

 

Move on from your life. Your acting leik your the only one that had this problem. Many people have something leik this.

Best to do, go get another woman k?

 

Plenty of other girls out there. This one rejection doesn't mean the end of the world for you.

Repliku bought up a good point. Did you go out with her first? Did you hang out with her as friends and then go on dates? If you just said 'I like you' and then she said 'I like you too.' That doesn't mean anything other than she finds you a good friend.

Girls are fickle. They're manipulative. 'So Julie, you like me shirt?' "Oh yeah...it's really cute.' Next day, Julie is out of the group since the Alpha female of the group considers her ugly.

Don't read too much into it.