I've got a dying friend.

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by Sexy Sheva, Dec 21, 2008.

  1. Scott Pilgrim Banned

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    I wouldn't be there when she dies. It's too difficult for a person. Stay positive. Go there, pay respects, say your final words and go home. It sounds cruel, but it's for the best in the long run.
     
  2. Rayku Kingdom Keeper

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    Yeah, it sounds heartless, but it might break you too much, but if you need too, then go..
     
  3. Sexy Sheva Banned

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    I hope so too.. I'm gonna give her my favorite TeddyBear :')

    My friend is doing better, the doctors thought she was going to die if her seizure didn't stop, and it stopped early enough. She's gonna live :')

    I'll be fine dude =)
     
  4. Scott Pilgrim Banned

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    THANK GOD! I was really afraid for ya. That's good.
     
  5. Korra my other car is a polar bear dog

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    For the love of god, is this really necessary?
    I would expect that you guys wouldn't take the bait like that; I've seen all of you in the spam zone and would trust you would know how to react (or not react) to blatant flaming. :/
    And Son of Sam...congrats, you're getting an early holiday gift. :'D

    Let's make this intelligent discussion again, yes?
     
  6. Rayku Kingdom Keeper

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    Im glad that she's okay, and hope she has the BEST christmas evar! :D
     
  7. Sexy Sheva Banned

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    my god, THANK YOU SO MUCH <33333333
    I tried pming Xaldin to delete this thread and another he's flaming <_>
     
  8. Rayku Kingdom Keeper

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    Is she spending time with her family for christmas, if they are, you should join them too!
     
  9. Noise For Love and Justice

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    Nessie im glad your friends doing better!

    tell her merry christmas!
     
  10. Korra my other car is a polar bear dog

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    I repeat: DO NOT TAKE THE BAIT. Ignore him and don't try to start an argument with him.
     
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    Consider this the ONLY warning I am going to be giving out. Sam, you've gone and pushed things far enough. Back off please and stop this.

    Cin and TMM, you both know better. Don't assist someone who is acting out the role efficiently on his own of being an idiot.
     
  12. Dexnail Twilight Town Denizen

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    well i hope ur friend has the best christmas ever and happy hallidays everybody :)
     
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    I'm so sorry to hear that. If anything, any obstacles that you face make you a stronger and more compassionate person in the end. If I were you, I would try to spend as much time with her as you can and recall all the most enjoyable times you've had with her. Try to make her smile and maybe you can even make her laugh for nothing cheers up anyone more than a giggle or two. My heart goes out to you my friend. *hugs*
     
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    I'm glad to hear your friend is going to be okay :')
     
  15. daxma Hei Long: Unrivalled under the Heavens

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    The thing is that i don't think the person in question wes has actually already excepted death.she has had enough time to mow in over in her mind so that she isn't afraid of her own mortality.
     
  16. Wulphie! Gummi Ship Junkie

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    I'm so sorry to hear this.
    She sounds really sweet.
    Pray for her every night.
    Be extra sweet and really nice to her and help her out a lot.
    I know how you feel; there was a girl at my elementary school last year named Heather and she was ******ed(seriously), but she was about the sweetest girl in the school.
    She had a lot of friends and everyone loved her, but she practically had a seizure one day and she was alright, but she moved to some different state.
    I don't remember which...
    Don't give up hope for her.