I hate it when people begin their

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  1. Ars Nova Just a ghost.

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    thoughts with things like "I mean" or "Like." First off, it shows you're not committing to what you're saying. Why should I take you seriously if you're not affording yourself the same privilege? Secondly, it's a waste of words. I mean, these phrases are supposed to be injected in the middle of a thought to clarify what you're trying to say. What previous idea are you overwriting with "I mean" if you just started talking? Verbal tics are actually supposed to, like, mean something, not just be there because you don't know how to start your sentence with something concrete like "Well, I'm of the opinion that..."

    TL;DR: Lrn2speak, nubs.

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  2. Xaale Sylph of Hope

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    Sadly I do have a habit of throwing a like somewhere in conversations.
     
  3. Ars Nova Just a ghost.

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    No, see, that's different. It's forgivable to apply "like" to a sentence when you need to pause and think or clarify that you're not entirely certain if you're really nailing the thought on the head. The problem is when it comes at the beginning of a sentence, no provocation, no necessity of forethought. I'd rather the person just not speak; wait until they actually know what they want to say, then start off strong. Those words are put to better use later in a sentence.
     
  4. Captain Hero Hollow Bastion Committee

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    This is going to throw a lot of people off and epic lulz will ensue. I applaud you, good sir.
     
  5. Catch the Rain As the world falls down ♥

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    I love you for making me not feel so bad about thinking that.
     
  6. Styx That's me inside your head.

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    Dude, like, whatever.
     
  7. Boy Wonder Dark Phoenix in Training

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    You've been learning the English language for quite some time now.
     
  8. reptar REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

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    i say 'like' more than a valley girl and Nicolas Cage put together
     
  9. Ars Nova Just a ghost.

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    You obviously misunderstand my meaning. When the phrase is the beginning of a thought, it serves no purpose; this does not necessarily mean it can't come at the beginning of a sentence. And this is exactly my point; people need to be more aware of the specificity of language. It helps to eliminate misunderstanding. Granted, my example is a relatively minor and harmless case; thank you for providing me with a slightly stronger one.

    I'm afraid not. It's 'apologies', with two o's. And no, this thread was not directed at you. It was the result of spending an hour with a discussion group only one or two of which were willing to speak, one of them having committed the aforementioned offense.
     
  10. The Fuk? Dead

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    ...



    I do understand your point though.
     
  11. Ars Nova Just a ghost.

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    ...Frig, I did say 'sentences' first. I kinda shifted gears mid-post. *fixes* There, now it's not stupid and hypocritical.
     
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    lol. Don't sweat it.
     
  13. Boy Wonder Dark Phoenix in Training

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    Which reminds me,
    anyone remember that show 8 Simple Rules?
     
  14. reptar REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

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    lol yeah. hated Bridgette
     
  15. Fayt-Harkwind Where yo curly mustache at?

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    The best character (IMO) died.
     
  16. Boy Wonder Dark Phoenix in Training

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    Best lines in the show:

    Kerry: If you have to talk, please don't say "so", "totally" and "oh my god"
    Bridget: Right, I can so do that. I totally just said "so"! And "totally"- oh my god! *gasp*
    That was a shame.
    I saw him as a kid in Three's Company.
    I didn't even know the actor died until several weeks later.
    I thought they just wanted a tragic show and he quit or something.
     
  17. Shizzy Gummi Ship Junkie

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    I concur with this.
     
  18. The Fuk? Dead

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    I wish they'd show Married...With Children on T.V. more.
     
  19. Catch the Rain As the world falls down ♥

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    Oh man, I used to adore that show so much, it was awesome ;-;
     
  20. reptar REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

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    they show it on TV land all the time