Help with Life

A good deal of teenagers clam they're considering suicide, and most of them never even come close to it. It's mainly just a form of attention whoring.

Then what are his problems? He's not suffering, certainly people don't "hate" him, because he's being taken out to a party, and getting a Wii for his birthday.
He's a teenager, and therefore he's going to be very angsty and depressed over nothing, don't encourage such behavior.

 

We shouldn't be doing this, could you just try o be less harsh? I will leave it at that. Sorry if we have stopped anyone from posting.

 

I could tell you guys that I have no friends, but I do. Good friends.
I could also tell you that I'm so depressed and emo and I want to runaway, but I don't.

My real problems are... I guess, different than a lot of other people's who have posted here. So here it goes.

At night, I get so frantic and paranoid, Like someone's going to break into my room with a knife or a gun and try to kill me. And it seems like I have no reason to think like this, I just do.

My room is upstairs,and you have to pass by my sisters room and a bathroom to get to it. And there's a bunch of junk in the hallway that leads to my room, so if anyone tried to get to my room, they'd have to step over a bunch of junk to get to it.

I also sometimes feel that there's going to be a fire or a bomb's going to go off in my room. It's really weird what I will think up at night.

And one night I stayed up very late because I was worried that tsomething bad was going to happen, and the next day a pipe in front of our house broke. It's common where I live because in the winter it gets so cold that the water in the pipes freezes and when water freezes it expands, breaking the pipes.
But in the summer it gets around 120 degrees Faranheight(sp?).

Getting back on topic, I really need help. I'm not sure what causes these strange thoughts, but I want it to stop...

 

I'm guessing you fear death by what you just put. Now if you haven't already tryed to read a book, listen to something or watch something before you go to sleep, try it.
If that doen't work try and put more security around your room to make you feel safer at night like lock your dor, have a fire alarm in your room or even get a guard dog. Just try and relax, it should ease your worries.

 

Thanks.
I've never really feared death, I guess I fear pain more.
When I was like, 6-9, I used to share a room with my brother. We watched TV every night, even if I didn't want to.(He'd yell and hit me. lol)
That was before I was always paranoid, so I'll try turning on the TV at night like I used to.

 

Glad I could help. And if the problem continues, you know where to post.
Come on people we are all here to help whenever and whatever.

 

Carbunclegem, I'm going to be completely honest with you. You're just being paranoid. The chances of any of that crap happening are so low that there's really no reason for you to be truly afraid. Pipes freezing isn't something that's really serious, or incredibly dangerous. I like in Canada, and it can get quite cold here. My pipes freeze in the winter, and I'm still alive.

The solution to your problem? Chillax. XD You don't need fire alarms if you're not going to be playing with fire in your room, there aren't going to be any bombs, that's just kinda stupid.

You sound like Tweak from South Park. XD Underpants Gnomes.

 

Giving the statistics does not help anyone calm down. Could people just accept tat other people have problems and just try to help them without sying your crazy, paranoid or selfish because that does not help in anyway.

 

[sarcasm] Thansk guys i'm alll better now! I'mg oing to have a nice big bowl of angsty'os the #1 choice of emo teens![/sarcasm] Yeah so my life just started a whole debate in this thread....Anyways i'll list my problems

1. My parents are in a custody battle over me,I really don't want to go with either of them at the moment
2. My mom's a celeb in the church world,meaning i have to be her stupid lil' dress-up doll and act the way she wants me to be. If i say i don't , she'll get mad at me and tell me that she'd send me to father, who i hate more than anyone in the whole world.
3. I'm so clumsy and uselelss everytime i try to help some one i might litrally put them in the E.R.
4. I have no friends,The ones who sa they are my friends are back stabbers that just keep me around for their entetainment.

 

It's ok man. If you really need Help I'll be your friend. I know sometimes life is hard but with friends it makes it a whole lot easier. I'm here to help.

 

Yeah we are all friends here, we are all part of a giant family, so make yourself comfortable.

 

YAY! *sits on couch* Yeah that's a good idea. As long as we're a family we always have other around us who care.

 

No need to face your problems alone, thats why this thread was created, to become more like a family.

 

i am not a fiend! ok maybe a little bit...
What have i missed?

 

Sorry, I ment to put friends but missed an 'r', I have changed it now.

 

*sits down on couch*

We all help each other here!

 

yeah, even if we are fiends!
i think i can only start if a new help topic comes up.

 

1. My parents are in a custody battle over me,I really don't want to go with either of them at the moment

- Read # 2

2. My mom's a celeb in the church world,meaning i have to be her stupid lil' dress-up doll and act the way she wants me to be. If i say i don't , she'll get mad at me and tell me that she'd send me to father, who i hate more than anyone in the whole world.

- I will be honest, go with your mom, its like monty python said, " Life is full of **** ", anyways, your 14 right? Look just stick with your mom, I mean if you really hate your father more than anyone in the world that pretty much eliminates 1/2. besides a religious mom isn't really a bad thing, about that thing of listening to your mom... respecting your elders (yes your moms an elder :D) is a responsibility to you and your family.

3. I'm so clumsy and useless everytime i try to help some one i might literally put them in the E.R.

- Read # 4

4. I have no friends,The ones who say they are my friends are back stabbers that just keep me around for their entertainment.

- Make some, theres a friend for everyone, with you drowning in self doubt it'll make it hard for you to get friends. Lighten up mate, grab a beer (in your case a soda) and kick it! Teen years don't last long you know, I say believe in yourself a bit more.

 

Ppl at school make fun of me becaues of my frzy curly hair thing,(damn mother gave me this hair) nobody like Japnese stuff, my Parents try to get me out off KH. I fell like I want to kill myself.

Help

 

Curly hair...

Straiteners?

and don't bother about people not liking what youlike, as long as you like it thats good =)

as for your parents trying to get you out of KH. Just have a civil conversation and tell them that you eally like it and you're not going to stop just because they don't like it.

If that doesn't work you may kill me.