Friend problem!

Man, i went out to play with my friends today,and i dunno,i felt kinda weird...Like everything was colder.And i don't know why...I don't think i have done sth bad...But actually nobody has...Could it just be that we are growing up...?Ah i feel so weird.Help me...

 

As you get older your priorities and interests change. Things that make you friends ie. things that you have in common might have changed. Sometimes people drift apart for no reason, it's life it happens.

By colder do you mean you didn't talk as much, or they/you behaved differently?

 

I mean that they behave differently.Like they were made of stone.I was thinking of other summers that we were there and one of them was the best summer in my whole life.What do you mean by priorities that change and stuff?I mean,if you are friends with sb, aren't you gonna keep it that way?

 

Idk what to say. I mean, I used to have friends where I lived, but as we grew up, I just didn't like them as much. I just stopped hanging out with them. Odd thing though is that a weak after I stopped hanging out with them, I learned that they were crack addicts, no joke. The point I am tryen to put here though, is that maybe you should hang out with them a little longer, and if you don't feel like you are that good of friends with them, then just hang out with some of your other friends, alrite then govna?

 

It's really not that easy...I mean i know these guys since i was 9 or sth.It isn't that easy to let them go...

 

The people that used to be my friends I knew since I was 4. I'm 14 dude. That is 10 years (well 9 really since I just turned 14), but the point is is that you just don't hang out with them as much.

 

It's just that i have lost many friends in my life and this is about to make me feel even more sad about it.Ah anywayz...Guess you are right.I should hang out with other kids too!thnx...