Boys. (Again)

"Is it more attractive if a girl says they are taken?"
Not at all. If a girl tells me that she's taken it just crushes me. I've liked four girls in my school and they were all taken. It made my lose interest in them quickly. I knew there was no hope.

"Is it more attracting if the girl says that they are ugly, stupid, etc.?"
I can't really answer this one. I have a very low confidence in myself and I do that to many people. In fact it get's on a lot of my friend’s nerves. It's probably a reason why I don't even have a girlfriend yet.

"WHY do you think it's cool to wear your pants halfway off your a**?!"
That's not cool at all. My pants are certainly not halfway down, but they are baggy. I don't like tight jeans either. I simply wear a belt.

 

Oh my god i can not believe I am posting this on a forum I staff on. I might go shoot myself in the face after this.

So I really like this guy im close with. Everyone who sees us together asks us if we are dating and we arent even though I sort of wish we were and I dont know how he feels about it. He has helped me through a very intersting time of my life, I can not explain the countless times he has been so very helpful. Im going to use one just so you know this sort of thing. About a month ago I made out with a friend of his and I regret it (longstoryagain) and he knew I was ashamed of what I did and when it started getting out to the school I came over to him and was like "What do I do? The team found out and they are going to tell everyone. They knew something happend and they were like "Was it him or so and so?" and I was like "...so and so" and I told him this and he looks at me and goes "Why didnt you just tell them it was me?"
Me: Umm, sort of didnt know that was an option
Him: Katie, you know i can handle these things better than him, and it would be easier on you, if you want we can just tell everyone it was me that kissed you and have it be over with.
Me: ....
Him: *hugs* Its okay little rose child, Ill fix everything for you. Its going to all be okay mmkay?

I will <3 for ever and ever for saying that to me xD. But thats just one thing i guess. and my friend says this "Just you two when you are around each other...you click ya know? I dont even know how to describe it." but I cant shake that feeling in my stomach that he doesnt like me like that. And if he doesnt then i dont want to risk our friendship for that, it means to much to me. But at the same times i cant keep these feelings inside of me, when I see him i get happy for gods sake.

im just confused with myself about this and would like some help.

God I hate my love octagon with a passion

 

Ah. That's what you were trying to get at. In the context of maintaining and acquiring social contacts it makes sense. In the context of the question that was originally asked it doesn't.

 

well, the good thing is that you don't have to find out immediately right? you have time to slowly find out. but i suppose the fastest way to find out is to just ask even though doing that can be awkward. i don't think it'll risk your friendship if you like him that way but he doesn't feel the same way, it would be awkward, yes, but that feeling will pass.

 

*hits on the head*
Its so simple how to get through the situation.
Just get a friend to ask him if he likes you silly ^_^

Think about it. That way its not like you have to ask, a friend finds out for you, and he doesn't find out. Besides that though, he realy does seem to want you, especially if he si telling you to tell people that you made out with him XD


I usually go into more detail with these things, but this is the simplest and easiest solution >.>

 

Yeah no, everyone elses advice is dumb.

He likes you, the end.

You know the mythical "friend zone" that you hear Guys in movies (and in real life) complain about, like how they like a lady-friend of theirs a lot, but since they've been friends so long they think that the girl only thinks of them "as a friend" or "as a brother"? Guys basically have that too, they have "only as a friend" or "love you like a sister" zones as well.

The easiest way to tell if you're in one of these situations is that, most of the time, that very phrase will be uttered from their mouth at some point. If you've been friends with someone so long that you think they only like you as a friend/sister, then chances are at some point they will actually say so in some form or the other, either by comparing you to their sister like "I used to do this with my sister, haha", by saying "I wish you were my sister" or "You'd be a much better sister than the one I have", or a situation comes up where they're like "Can you pretend to be my sister?", or if someone who doesn't know you that well thinks you two are brother/sister and they don't do anything to correct it or don't seem to really mind the comparison at all

In your situation, he has brought up that he would be perfectly fine with you rectifying a situation by telling people that you and him were kissing. In his mind, if he's okay with the thought of you two kissing, he does not think of you as a sister, and he does not think of you as just a friend. Just friends and Like-a-Sister feelings do not involve being okay with the thought of kissing you.

 

I hate it when guys do that- IT'S GROSS *shudders*
I see a million asses daily- it rly gets old >. >

 

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>:[
Ur rly starting to piss me off.

 

>i woundnt say its more attractive but it does tell us you go out so if were the type thats only social on the internet then we may see it as a say opportunity.

>as was said earlier, its not realy attractive to have low self esteem but high self esteem can make a tough relationship. ex. i've been told that i wasnt goodlooking enought by someone so yeah. what ive found with low selfesteem is it makes boys feel good and kind because they are complimenting you and defending you frome yourself at the same time so they think they being a good boyfriend.

>i've never understood the sagging pants thing but i have a theory no actually i know how it started. it actually started in jail when cell mates are wordlessly telling each other that they want to, ahem thats awkward. then it realy caught on in gang neighborhoods because they would either have family of a friend in jail or have gone there themselves. then the gangster wanabees or wangsters decided theyed do it untill eventuall it became the new style and nobody remembered what it realy meens

 

If girls may show cleavage then so do we.