A friend or a dearly beloved Pt. 2

well how long sould they be then buddy?? Talk to me! xD

 

I would say that in this matter, it is always up to the person who is the one who is stuck between two choices. The girl you both like should probably know that you both like her so that she can make a decision.

You both are hurting and upset, but in the end just because one of you may lose out on her, it does not mean there will not be other girls that come along and will interest you. You are both dealing with it civilly, which is a good thing, but do try to not be depressed too so much. You are both good guys and I am sure whoever she chooses, she will be happy but also the other person is an eligible person to find a girl that will be cool and you'll be a good man to that new girl. So try to not be so down, both of you, or to feel guilty about it.

You both have a right to present your interest to her and if one of you chooses to not do so, that is also your choice, but if that is the case, you make the decision so you live with it too. In this case, the other guy is -not- saying to do nothing and step off. He's being cordial and he's absolutely right that it is the girl's choice. If you choose to not make your interest known, then it becomes your choice and you should try to not be too upset about that because you made it your own decision, taking it out of her hands.

Whatever you decide, know that in this case you both are being very mature and not fighting over it. This is so not always the case as some people are -very- competitive. I could wish that circumstances were like this for others and it is very remarkable you two are willing to talk it out and be so civil. You should be proud of yourselves and hopefully she will make a choice and though one of you will be hurting, trust me, there are other girls out there. The situation hurts, but I hope all of you will be alright and if you need someone to talk to, you have this area at least where we will try to help.

 

thank u Repliku for posting that, i´m very happy for your tip,,, :rockdover:

 

hmm, i was reading the thread.

no offense but it sounded like a soap opera....

anyways, each of you must tell her...but not at the same time, or if you wish to remain silent...well it's your choice....

do what you have to do, and think it's right, k?.

 

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i just wished that he wouldn't post it like this...

anyways...
i think that the actuall problem for us is that we want the other one to have her...which is pretty dumb yet funny....

if only you didn't make this thread sir light...

 

I'm sorry darkness...

I can lock it if you want to...

 

it's up to you light...
but please speak in pm istead.....if you want to, we can report to the other members later after you are together with her....

 

was that second qoute meant to happen?

 

i'm sorry my internet isn´t the best,,,

hey wait,,, When did you get back from scotland?? =o

 

i'm not...
we have a connecion here...
heh...
now please message me in pm...or i'll message you... it doesn't matter...i have a question...if i may ask...

 

If you guys want this closed just post saying so or send me a PM and I'll be glad to close it for you. I hope things work out and you guys can maintain a friendship whatever happens.

 

We´ll stay friends whatever happends. ^^