****.

That's not a guy-thing to do when you get dumped, more like the thing women do. If a guy watched a sad movie and cried it'd definitely make them think more about the relationship, he needs to get over it and move on >_> A guy's version of that would be to watch an action movie or a horror movie while eating popcorn/chips/ice cream/something and drinking soda/beer/whatever... No crying involved >_>

 

I think you've got the main point down. I mean, if I've got this interpretted correctly, this is something big, that should be talked to in person. She wasn't willing to do that, which says something about her. I don't know this Jessica, so I can't say what kind of a person she is, but I know that something this big shouldn't happen over the phone like that.

 

Well, he is in vermont, and she is in Bermuda >>

 

That's not physically possible. He's in Vermont while she's in Bermuda. He just moved awhile ago to Vermont and I don't think it was two week before she just gave up all hope.

 

sorry
i was just trying to help
:(

 

It's alright, you had the main point, just that the details were mixed up.

 

I see your point...great, I may have just made this problem worse.

Sorry about that.

I can tell you, for certain, that it can get better.

 

Dang Mark, i'm sorry man. Think of it this way, there are always other out there, that can bring you happiness, and joy into your heart. Never forget, there is going to be that very special person if you try hard enough.

 

Find someone new?*shrug* I've never experienced breaking up or even having someone.

 

mark.

Advice from my heart, the first thing to do, is sit and realise... The distance always kills a relationship. *points at Darky's and my last relationship*
It's going to hurt, you're going to not be able to see things properly, but through it all the thing that will get you through is talking.

Not specifically about Jessica. Talk about anything. Once you hear other people's opinions, you begin to see; the reasons why it happened, and if it was for the better or not.

*Sigh*

msn time for Angel and Marky.

 

I'm really sorry to hear this Xaldin.

The first and most Important thing to do Is TRY not to get depressed. Its hard I know but If you get depressed you feel more bad and you start to do things you don't want to =\ (I don't know If Its the same way with you though)

Second of all, Its good that you are talking to us. Friends really help you In this situation.

Third of all, try not to think about her (Thats hard as well, Yes I know). If you can not, not think about her, try and think about all the good things you done without her.

Forth of all, remember that there are plenty more girls out there, and there will be one for you. Even If you don't find her straight away, you have to remember that things take time.

I hope my advise has helped you. I may not be an expert but this thing has happened around me a lot, So I have experience.
I hope you feel better Xaldin and remember we are all here for you =)

 

Each person handles this sort of situation differently. It's going to be quite tough for you, but you will overcome it. I really don't know what advice to give you.

 

dude. tough break.


mark......
i feel empathy. i guess...... just think. thats what i do. re read everything you have ever done with Jessica and every single conversation you've had. it never helps to forget, it comes back, and you break down. make everything crystal clear, and... its mind consuming. its always in the back of your mind. though its not a sad collection of memories. its just...... there.


might not work for you, but you can bet your *** it works for me.

im real sorry man, but you'll get through one way or another.

 

i'm really sorry to hear this...

dont get depressed over her. it can lead to bad things. and besides, shes just one girl, and there are other girls out there. you may not find one as soon as you'd like, but stuff like that takes time.

try not to forget her, since it will come back and make you feel terrible again.

if you're up to it, try talking to her. sometimes that makes things better.

you'll get through it. i hope you feel better :o

 

that sucks dude =/

i'm going to offer you something i don't do with guys alot

a hug

 

My advice for you man would be, if you have made some good buddies out there at your new school, go hang out with them, do stuff to keep your mind busy so your not stuck on the pain. It's never easy, but its the best thing, just MAKE yourself go out, have fun, and eventually, you'll be alright. granted, im older and its legal for me, but I like to go out to the bar and get plastered. I guess in your case though, you can try to find something you like doing. I don't really know your hobbies so I cant say.


Ending a relationship is always difficult, no matter who it is that says "It's over" both sides usually have to get over alot of emotional issues. If you feel you need to, find your closest friend(either online, or off) and vent your feelings out to them, I dont know what else to say.








A little off topic here but: Why does everyone blame it on being long distance? Maybe she just felt they grew apart or something.

 

Because besides you and Sara, every single long distance relationship falls apart.

 

......their relationship was long distance?

Didn't they wash each other's hair once...? With soap? >_>

 

Mish, Xaldin moved to Vermont, pay attention :P

 

Oh. *dies*. Excuse my ignorance. x3