1st date

Good choice :) That's an idea to take with you later on if you are fortunate enough to ask her out on antoher date ;) Make it as personal as you can - it shows effort. It might feel easier doing it by text though :) Let us know what she says so we can plan it out exactly what you'll do! (jk about the exactly what you should do part)

 

he should at least be glad we're not getting him ready for any dates. It would be like 7 mothers around him at the same time

 

A good sign !:)

okay i called and she picked up!!

i said its me

and she was alll happy and said "hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii"!
and asked her what movie she wated to watch and she said whatever i want is fine
okay so what do i do now?

 

Well....this is not where you make it up as you go alone.

 

i guess but....

could she really have meant that? 0.o

 

Don't you think you're overthinking a bit? I mean, would she really just say whatever you want and not mean it?

 

Yes. Go find a movie you want to watch, make sure it's appropriate and choose it :)

 

:stupid:

okay (:

 

To take a more cynical/cautious viewpoint of the situation, she's testing your judgement in movies, be it consciously or subconsciously. You now have the job of picking something that she'll like without her telling you what she wants. The test is whether you know her well enough to please her without being prompted.

That said, I'm intentionally over-thinking this here. It'll be fine, so long as you choose something relatively entertaining. If you have to, just choose something extremely generic and ridiculously mainstream, so as not to negatively impact your character in her eyes.

 

I'll say. That's way too much over-thinking

 

P,you get rep for reading my mind

@ aqua: and yes it sover thinking but this is what i meant dude

EDIT: today i walked by a flower-shop and should i get her a rose?
do girls like these type of things?
or is it just just clicchey?

 

Personally, I'd think a rose would be out of place at a movie cinema, especially on a first date. Roses are fairly old-fashioned, so while they may be appropriate for more formal situations, such as a school prom, to take them to a casual date at a movie theatre may be going a tad too far.

I'd suggest that you stop thinking of this as an exam or a trial, and instead think of it as something to have fun at. If you do your best to have fun, it'll be a better experience for both of you, even if it doesn't go anywhere afterwards.

 

yur right im taking this too seriously i gotta chill... ​

:P
thanks P​

 

Thats what I was thinking, you give flowers at dances, romantic dinners, etc.. Not on the first date to the movies. I suggest going to a place like Starbucks after the date(this is what I do because there is one next door to my theater, but any small chat place works). You can discuss the movie, get to know her more, etc.

People over think these dates wayyy to much. Like P said, just have fun, if you're not having fun do you really want to go out with said person? The answer is no.

 

Remember too that presumably she's in the same boat as you, and trying not to screw up too badly.

If you two hang out together and try to have a good time, it'll work out better than if you try to win her fair hand in marriage at first date.

 

first of all

second of all:
yhea she probabaly just as nervous so yheah :P

 

interesting choice of clip. So you decide which movie you'll see?

 

midnight in paris,xmen 1st class or pirates of the caribean

 

As a date movie, Midnight in Paris would probably be good. Of course, it depends on the girl, but it should work because it's a romantic comedy.

as long as it's not one night in paris

 

Screw Paris, we have Pirates! If you both haven't seen that I recommend it, it should be the safe bet seeing as most people like the Pirates saga.
Haven't seen the the X-Men yet, but I hear it was good. If she's in to comics, video games, comic book movies, etc. then she'll like it, if not then you should explore your other options.