what does it mean if

my best friend.
thats a girl. that im gonna ask out.
that i mentioned on this forums in the "help with life thread"

that if i ever died.
her world would stop spinning. and everything around her would freeze.

and telling me she loves me more then anyone else would.

and she was literally serious about it.

whatd she mean by that when she said the first part. Which says that if i ever died.
her world would stop spinning. and everything around her would freeze.

 

It means she truly loves you. And although the world wont actually stop spinning if you die, she feels as though her reason to live is for you, I guess.

 

Actually the words can mean two things. Either she's being romantic and sweet or she's extremely co-dependent and is serious that she is so emotional she will make herself out of control should something happen where you break up etc. I don't really find it romantic anymore after having two uber co-dependent girlfriends in the past that just tried controlling my life and it was just not something very much fun at all. I'd hope she's the first, just being poetic, romantic, but good luck with that.

 

Ehh....Repliku has a point.

But when I first read what you put I thought it meant that she really loved you. That if you were gone, she doesn't think that there would be a point anymore.

Which does seem romantic. I say good luck

 

haha
i know what Replikus talking about

i had one super controlling gf in the past.
wasnt fun at all.

This girl..she isnt controlling at all.
Like, after she told me that. i asked her if she was serious about it.
and she was.
but she isnt the type to control people.
and shes not really the emotional type either, cept just for those times where she breaks down like most people.

 

I wish you luck then and if she's a nice girl that isn't co-dependent and all, she probably is just being heart felt and showing you how she feels as she can at the time. Good deal. :)