Well, this sucks...

All this time, I was talking to this girl I really liked trying to flirt and such. She's the cutest girl in school. I spent about a month and a half talking to her and such, she even gave me her number. But, now, she drops the bomb on me: she already has a boyfriend.

So, what should I do, /khv/?

HOW ABOUT I BE BOYFRIEND NUMBER 2?!

 

3 ways aren't all they're cracked up to be.

 

Especially if it's two dudes and a chick.

 

Not what I meant, but, whatever.

I meant that I be her boyfriend on the side while the other has no idea.

 

You know how things go,Afro.Find the number 2 headband..defeat the number one..become the number one..and the cycle continues.

 

This often leads to conflict...but it's up to you.


And to her.

 

3 ways aren't all they're cracked up to be.

 

If she gave you her number...idk it just seems to me, shes interested in you. She wants to hear your voice man. If she didn't really want to start a relationship, she would give you her aim screen name or something.

That'll screw up your relationship forever pretty much.

 

lol BUT I DO HAVE HER SCREEN NAME!

Oh, and I was kind of kidding about the Boyfriend number 2 thing. Just being optimistic.

 

Oo, Kinky, I like that.

 

Even better. Just try to be really good friends...if she breaks up, so be it, go for the chance. If she doesnt...=/ move on.

 

In all seriousness, see if she willing, and if she is, just get some action and some respect. I hate being and *******, but I'm just bein' realistic. Unless you want to wait for her to break up with her boyfriend, but that **** probably won't work.

 

You gotta show her you're the right one. Someday she'll go to you if you do things right. Be patient. I've been in a similar situation, it's all about timing it right.

 

Well, it has happened 3 to 4 times and they only got together last year, according to her.

I guess. But she's like the girl of my dreams, man. I just can't get off of her, you know? Not obssessive, or anything, but still.

 

Yeah...I know how you feel. I can't really suggest anything else I'm dealing with the same thing myself. I don't exactly know what to do really. I dont even have her screen name, lol.

 

Well, just act like you're asking for a bunch of people's aims, and then casually ask her for hers. If she asks why. Just say that you have a new Aim and you want everyone's aims back.

 

Sideline it for now. If you're meant to be, the chance will arise. Don't rush it. lol i'm a hypocrite