Yeah... Probably won't happen. That's part of living at home, that's just how it works. You ain't alone about that.
Even though I don't live with my mum, we don't argue that much, but then again I guess I am older then you so me and my mum have gotten passed that stage
Spoiler My days generally consist of wasting my time on here, doing the daily chores so I don't waste all of my time here, and my mother always asking me if I did do those chores so I'm not always on here. Gets rather old fairly quickly, especially when I do them and I just feel like she can't let me take initiatives "because she doesn't see me doing anything." The cycle just ends in a flurry of frustration, a dead-lock of ill will due to expectations that are already in effect.
Move out. Problem solved. At least that's what I did and the amount of arguments dropped. Now I just hear my parents worrying if I already wasted all of my money for the month. xD
Oh god my life right there. Me and my mom use to fight a lot actually. Now that I moved out, I'm just happy I get to see her from time to time. It really helped our relationship >_> I don't think I've ever fought with my dad now that I think about it. We're more friends than anything, haha.
i feel ur feels, bro i'm so lucky i can go to my dad's every few weeks and calm down lolol. cannot stand my mother almost always. i'm so ready to get out of here haha.
Speaking from experience, dysfunctional only scratches the surface of my family, but one thing that does function is that we argue, normal occurrence for a family, it's being able to get passed the fact you bicker and move on that's the sign of a strong bond like blood, tensions and hormones cause a lot of strife in your home life, but the fact it is a home causes greater comfort than anything, as long as all parties are prepared to understand and co-operate eventually, aint nothing that's too big.
This. My Mom and I are constantly fighting. The only reason it's been better lately is due to the fact that we both know that changes have to be made by both of us. No family is perfect, and fighting is a way to grow in your relationships, and understand the other person's point of view. But moving out can help too.
No denying it's a quick solution, but bonds are built stronger closer to the source of the problem, sticking it out at home until issues are resolved usually makes things end better than just moving out, but I do agree sometimes it's really the only option at the time.
This, but with my mum. I'm dying to move out but I think I'll miss having my mum around. I'll miss watching shows and films with her. xD My dad, on the other hand, we don't have much of a relationship, and I rarely say anything or respond to him, so I'll be happy that I don't have to see him as much.
^ This Me and my Mum had a great relationship but of course there were times we would argue and clash. Still in the end I knew it was because she cared. Vivi has said everything perfectly. But all I can say is, don't let it get between you. Because in the long run you will regret it. My cousin didn't talk her to Dad for almost 7 years. It wasn't until last Tuesday at a funeral did they actually start to contact each other again.
Toughen up, I say. And then when you're alone, break down and release all feels. Also try to nurse the cuts and bruises as best as you can so the public won't see them. And patch up your walls too, that way your friends won't see all of the holes. You're golden.
Oh god, those feels. My mother is like one of those helicopter parents, she wants to know everything to the what, when, where, why, because. I'll be eating dinner and she'll ask those questions all in the same order... it's ridiculous. I know she cares about me, but there's a point where it's too much. She'll argue about my answers afterwards. But my dad's cool with me, he just lets me do whatever.
