Long Distance Dating?

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Long Distance Dating?

  1. I think so.

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  2. Deffinatly A No-No.

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  1. Rissy Queen of the Clouds

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    I'm not really sure of the subject.
    I just think if you love eachother enough, you can keep it strong. But, knowing that he/she could be making-out with someone random and you never being told, irritates me.
    But, there is loyalty, and some people know what that is. And some people don't. So what do you think?
     
  2. Crumpet In your shadow, I can shine!

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    i dont really think it can survive really. The stress of not seeing the person plus the worry of cheating could really get to someone
     
  3. Rissy Queen of the Clouds

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    I thought so as well. But the loyalty, and talking to them could keep it going. Even talking on the phone keeps it flowing. I mean, I think I could've had a chance with my ex-boyfriend if we just stayed in touch, and not fight over Myspace on why we don't talk anymore. And now, he talks to one of my best friends, witch I think he likes. But whatever. I'm on to bigger and better things.
     
  4. Crumpet In your shadow, I can shine!

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    Good for you. Oh and you may be right on that point
     
  5. Day~Dream Kingdom Keeper

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    The guy I love lives in Illinios and our bond is strong. Even if there is someone else, I dont wanna know. I dont worry about stuff like that, it's pointless.
     
  6. Misty gimme kiss

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    I'd avoid online dating at all costs. Meeting via the internet is fine with me, but in my opinion, you can't really know someone until you've seen them in real life, let alone love them. There's no trust -- they could be a pedophile, or someone just looking to screw with your feelings, and they could be with someone else.

    As for dating someone that recently moved away and making it a long distance relationship, it'd obviously be hard, but it can be done. if the person really means a lot to you, you shouldn't have to be separated by a move.
     
  7. Azure Flame Banned

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    I think it depends on how much you care for eachother and if the feelings are truely love.
     
  8. P E A N U T ~*~Never Surrender~*~

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    I think 98.5% of the time it fails (random estimate). So I think it's a no-no. Not many people have the commitment needed to help their relationships survive in a long distance situation.
     
  9. Sonic the Hedgehog The Blue dude is back!!

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    There is no one else,I love you and only you.
     
  10. Day~Dream Kingdom Keeper

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    same goes for me ^^
    I love you too.
     
  11. Sonic the Hedgehog The Blue dude is back!!

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    And that's how it will always be.As long as we are members on KH-V.
     
  12. Day~Dream Kingdom Keeper

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    you never know, maybe we might meet eachother someday.
     
  13. Sonic the Hedgehog The Blue dude is back!!

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    That depends,if you ever come to Illinois,or if I come to NY.
     
  14. Aura Goddess

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    I guess it would really depend on the people.Long distance relationships can work but then again they can't.To tell you the truth I wouldn't go for it.I wouldn't do a long distance relationship with someone.My brother is in a long distance relationship and so far its working out.It would really depend on how committed you are to go far enough to have a long distance relationship with someone.
     
  15. Sonic the Hedgehog The Blue dude is back!!

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    Your right.You have to really love the person in order to keep it going.
     
  16. sora_i_can_do_this Traverse Town Homebody

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    Dating somebody you met online= Really really bad idea

    Trying to maintain a relationship with somebody known for weeks= probly not

    going to last to long


    Trying to maintain a relationship that's been going on for years= If you both

    love each and are committed to the relationship; you'll make it work
     
  17. Panda Face Gummi Ship Junkie

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    hey! me and my lovely bf r long-distance! and we really love each other! xD
     
  18. DarkAbyss Merlin's Housekeeper

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    I would say no because personally for me i have to baa able to see the person or it will drive me crazy but use your on opinion that just how it is for me
     
  19. Scott Pilgrim Banned

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    I never thought it was such a good idea. You lose the connection of true love.
     
  20. Panda Face Gummi Ship Junkie

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    hmmmph. >:C*stomps foot angerily* does it matter as long as u love the person???!! >:3