Ok, so I'm in college and all my friends have moved away to dorms and such. None of them go to my college, and none will go to the one that I am going to transfer to in the fall. I am currently living at home with with my parents listening to my 14 year old brother throwing another tantrum about how he wants more time on the computer and how life is not fair for him. No girlfriends (a relief right now cause I can't afford one lol), never had one. my previous employer has closed up shop, nobody is hiring, my cash supply is diminishing, and I have spent my entire day on my computer posting on this forum (Boy am I proud of myself, what an accomplishment :)). but my life is not a total loss. I am very intelligent. My GPA is a 3.78. I am a member of Phi Theta Kappa, which is the highest award you can get at a community college. I was accepted into the college that I plan to transfer to, and they said I was eligible for a scholarship of $2,500. I'm hoping to get a better scholarship that will pay for 100% of the tuition for my next four semesters. I have a sense of humor, I have you people to talk to all day, and my brother just ended his tantrum because he got what he wanted lol. but still I have been on this site all day. I'm beginning to think that I don't have life. And though I am not depressed, the thought is quite depressing.
Just try and get out there and do more. If you have friends you can still see, see them when you can. If not, go out to like an arcade or something and try to make friends, or even at the mall or something. All you gotta do is just get out there and make a life for yourself. Sitting at the computer is nice; it's not a horrible thing to sit around on it all day, as long as that's not all you're doing every day. =)
Sign up for something like swimming or something. I used to have the same issue, but after I got into some things around school (I'm in High School BTW)and other things, I met a lot of people. Like during the summer, I go to this swim club and that's where I met a lot of my friends, even though most don't go to my school (Since I go to a magnet school).
everyday huh?.... heh, heh... ok.... not good...... got..... get off...... computer.... but first..... must check another thread...... then maybe.....
Welcome to my life. Or rather, my life of about a year ago. I am now at the college I wanted, in a dorm by myself. I talk to myself, and rarely interact with anyone outside of classes. And you know what? It's fun. I get to do whatever I want. I can walk around completely naked if I want (and in fact I have once, when I forgot clothes when I was showering), I can get on the computer all day long (barring classes), and I can stay up till 5AM without anyone yelling at me. Just learn to talk to yourself, and it'll be fine :D
the talking to myself i do in my head, lol. I have entire conversations with myself in my head! the dorm I can't do since there aren't any dorms where I'm going. sighs.... funny though, thanks for amusing me :)
XD I know the feeling, I really do! It's fine to get online every day. Even if you spend all day on the computer occasionally, it's not healthy to do it every single day. Just limit your time on the computer by going out with friends (even if they're going to move), and making new friends! That's the best you can do. =)