help plz (if you can)

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  1. riku lover Banned

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    Lately, strange things have been happening. It's like someone if trying to kill everyone in my family. I think I might be next or something. Recently, my brother was found laying in the snow, dead. I'm really scared right now. Am I going to be next to die or something?! If anyone can help me, please do. Right now, I'm too scared to call or talk to someone for help. This thread is like the only way that I might be able to get some help.
     
  2. Sumi suicidé

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    oh god. My only advice is... Please be very careful, but don't be to paranoid. Being paranoid makes everthing worse. Uhm...I'm really sorry that your brother....​
     
  3. RoxaSora2010 Nulla è reale. Tutto è lecito.

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    First of all, I'm sorry for your brother, really. But what exactly makes you think that somebody wants to kill you? There are many people, at school for example, who can also kill for some reasons. You know, there's a lot people who sell drug, smoke or something else, maybe, your brother was having some businesses with these people. Why would someone want something with you? If you didn't do anything to someone, this person has no reason to kill you. I can understand that you're scared, everyone would be in this situation, but just don't worry if you've been good.
     
  4. daxma Hei Long: Unrivalled under the Heavens

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    man, if you knew the whole story then you'd know what she means.A thread was made just a few days ago and something dramatic was happening at the moments we were posting.
    I can't say anymore than that unless marissa wants to tell you.
     
  5. riku lover Banned

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    You can tell him. I don't mind. Just do it when I log off so I'm not reading it and getting really upset again.
     
  6. ♥AL90♥ Hollow Bastion Committee

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    Well if it's really this serious you might want to seek federal protection.

    A question though. was your brother in College or at home?

    Also you seem pretty calm for what's happened to you lately. Normally a person with this situation would use a lot of exclamation points and capital letters in bold and would go into more detail than "my brother was found laying in the snow dead". Was he stabbed or was he shot or was he poisoned or did he get into a fight? I'm just a bit suspicious.
     
  7. riku lover Banned

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    Thanks guys. I'm feeling a lot better now so a staff member can close this now.
     
  8. MSUK Twilight Town Denizen

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    Alright, I know I'm going to have somebody object to my insight on the matter now, and frankly, I don't care. At the end of the day, it's you people that brought this to the table(or thread, in a manner of speaking) in the first place.

    Now for one. Why were we not informed of this earlier? Most of us here cannot present advice and/or consolation if we have nothing to go on. If we're given vague descriptions and the like, what are we expected to say? it just causes ignorant(and I am not saying this in a negative tense) and confused replies. If one of you(seeming all 3 of you seem to be together in this) explained the situation in a calmer tone(However difficult it may be for you) and significant more detail, then maybe you may have received more sensible suggestions and less people guessing that this girl is just asking for attention. I do admit that the notion of this story is somewhat hazy and confusing to why this girl would not seek professional help rather than consult a forum with normal members living everyday lives, is somewhat confusing, however I for one am willing to try and understand.

    So yeah. tl;dr version? don't go saying "Did you know?! Did you know?!" and also "If you knew the situation..." when it almost seems like you're saying this rhetorically. Because the answer is, we don't know. We wasn't told. And you knew this full well.
    Yes, Tana_Panda is an idiot and many of us have obviously seen that, despite this, similar arguments have sprouted from different members who actually have more than half a braincell.

     
  9. daxma Hei Long: Unrivalled under the Heavens

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    Very well put and i like the fact that you addressed everything.The reason it wasn't mentioned was that i didn't think that marissa would cope with seeing it mentioned so i whited it out.Stuff like that shouldn't be mentioned until necessary but then it was necessasary.If she had bothered to look at previous posts i told Fayt that there was stuff that people wouldn't know and that i PM him with the info.If sh'ed looked there and asked to be PM'd the information, then she'd be able to make a proper suggestion.

    I'm partly to blame for this.She was coming to me and advice to give her because there were wierd circumstances as to how it might've happened and i said open it to other people but i gave her a bit of advice about it.
     
  10. gintasthebest Traverse Town Homebody

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    Marissa, just come downstairs and we can talk. I really don't want you stealing my chainsaw again. Calm down and hopefully, whoever is bothering you, will leave you alone.
     
  11. Catch the Rain As the world falls down ♥

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    Tana_Panda, watch your posts love, you are verging on rude let alone offensive and that won't be tolerated.


    As for this thread,

    Firstly, if the situation is as bad as you say it is then getting the authorities involved is something you must do. They can give you some form of protection, also, where are your guardians (by that I mean the adults who are in charge of looking after you and not Khimari and Lulu).

    Apparently you are staying at Emma's house right now? I don't fully understand what the hell is going on and I wont even pretend I do, but sweetheart, this is really the last place to come and get advice.

    I am going to lock this because it is dissolving into arguments and I don't particularly want to have to keep on deleting posts every ten minutes.

    :/ if you really feel your life is in danger then just be careful, don't wander around alone, don't do anything stupid such as running away. Talk to an adult and talk to the authorities as they are really much better equipped at offering advice,proper support and protection than we can.


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