Boys. (Again)

Heyy, It's me again, and I have some more questions for you 'Boy' experts.

>Is it more attractive if a girl says they are taken?
-I've been having some problems with that... ._.
A guy on here, (Not saying any names) has been flirting with me lately, and I have no clue why. But it's started since I've said that I've been going with Natee(Saintlikesgirls).

>Is it more attracting if the girl says that they are ugly, stupid, etc.?
-I've noticed that a lot lately... and I'm trying to get over the fact that Natee keeps insisting that I'm beautiful and smart. -.-"

>WHY do you think it's cool to wear your pants halfway off your a**?!
-I mean seriously. I've seen at least 40 butts today that were GUYS ALONE. O:

 

Self-deprecation is never attractive. I have a friend who often gets depressed thinking that she's stupid, ugly, fat, etc. and it never makes me happy to hear her say that.

Oh hey, look, I can have serious responses too. Suck it.

 

Yeah, some of my friends do that. And I often do it myself. But I think it's just a girl thing, to get attention, or just to make themselves be important to other people...

 

As for the first one, any number of things can be taking place.

For one, there's always the saying that people want more what they can't have, so even if it's slight infatuation, the fact that a girl is unavailable makes a person desire them more.

This isn't always the case, as some people simply give up if a girl is unavailable, at this point they either leave you alone, stick around just to be friends, or they find it funny to "joke" about still liking you, so they bug you about it just because it's funny to mess around and be like "So how about you come to my place tonight" even though they know you have a boyfriend

It's easy to confuse the last one for them legitimately still liking you, I guess, but yeah depending on their sense of humor, even if they don't like you any more, they'll continue to joke about it as if they do

Then there's the pining type, this isn't the same as "like what they can't have" because they don't like you more simply because you're taken, but moreso continue to like you in spite of the fact that you're taken. So, they like you enough to think it's probably worth waiting around and pining for you until you don't have a boyfriend anymore, and then maybe they'll have a chance with you

Most of this doesn't particularly apply to the world of internet dating, but I'm making you aware for when you stop being an antisocial loser and actually date corporeally

 

I was thinking the last thing mostly before I posted this, and I was sorta confused about it... I wasn't approached with such ambition last year as I was this year, but then I thought maybe it's just the fact that I know people, or the fact that I'm 'pretty'. I'm not sure. Or, maybe it's the thought that I has an a**, and the guy is just a player. xD

 

1st question: No, to me it feels uncomfortable to ask her out if the girl isn't single...so no.

2nd question: Not attractive, but I would say, "No you're not." So that's a hint that a certain guy cares about you.

3rd question: I don't wear my pants halfway off my ass. I wear tight jeans, so f*ck wearing my pants down so low, because it would be impossible, and it's just disgusting.

 

I actually know guys that do that. They wear skinny jeans, and pull them halfway off their a**. So yeah.

 

haha yea some guys do like taken girls for some odd reason but i'm not one >_> my friend was hitting on me GF >_>

bout the pants umm haha i do sometimes but i wear a belt but my belt is gay and when i walk my pants get lower till their near my ass haha!!! then id have to pull em up haha!!​

 

Y-You're a boy?! O_O
I deffinatly thought you were a girl... >>;

But yeah, I think the pants thing has a lot to do with the style. But whatever. xD

 

lol the style has been here since i was in he grade haha and now i'm a freshy its mostly all the african dudes and whiteys and hispanics i barely see asians do it haha! I think the guys can get girls with that kinda of stuff or r just lazy to put on a freckin belt.​

 

I HATE THAT STYLE!

i never wear it (icky)

um....i wouldn't hit on a taken girl, her BF might be bigger then me. besides, i don't want to start an issue over a girl. haha, i already have one *facepalm* in NY. hehe

 

Boys are confusing sweetie. We have to get used to it. Though honestly seriously guys. We dont want to see your ass all the time. :/

 

1.I'm sorry but dating online is horrible.My opinion please don't trash me.
If you want to have a real relationship focus on someone in your life that you know.Because you don't know who anyone on this site truly is unless they give you valuable information.Pictures don't count.
2.Guys love to be Gangsta so whatever,every guy in my school lacks a belt.It's not that bad after all;Guys.Most of the nerds or guys I wouldn't even be into wear belts but most of the hot guys need one.
3.If you say you're single and say your not..it's so not attractive.Be true to yourself.It's not a white lie,especially if the guy likes you that way.He will not want to ask you out, he might wait.In my school this isn't a problem because everyone is up in everyone's business.But, in the real world it might be an issue so don't do that.Guys who like to fight over girls are rude anyway so dump both of them, or just dump one and tell the other one that your not interested.
4.If you call yourself ugly or stupid it's out of low self esteem.The person you ask is forced to say that you arent which puts them in a uncomfortable position unless they don't give a shit about you.
Ex.Your sitting at the lunch table with your friend who is feeling horrible about weight."I'm so fat!"She says.You have to say.."No your not."
Despite how true or false the statement is.
It isn't attractive at all to do that.Be happy with who you are and don't spread your problems around to your friends.Only family or someone you trust.Because truth is, friends come and go and they really aren't going to care unless they are true to you;which is very rare.
I know what it's like for everyone.
I didn't have any friends in 4th,5th or 6th grade.But, in 2 years I have gained so many friends I am so pissed off about how much money I am spending for Christmas.I also gained confidence.Which brings me back to self esteem.
People only put themselves down to make themselves feel better.
You might hate the ditsy blonde girl(stereotype) at school,who gets all the guys but,she's better being full of herself them being completely miserable.

 

Yeah, two years....to grow in the right places...or the wrong ones >.>

yeah , Famous is a very cute chick.

Anyways, Don't give things the importance they shouldn't have, most people come and go as Famous said.

and If you know the person will be hurt by your rejection, be accertive with them.

 

OH YEAH! keep goin haha

 

Okay, If you want.

There is this girl at my lunch table named Christina and she is always complaining that she is overweight,looking in the mirror(compact) and putting on more makeup.
The truth is, she is fat and she should be watching her weight.
But,she doesn't bother to eat healthier or get active or anything.
She just continues being miserable,not even trying to loose any weight.ONly complaining.
I love to say I don't know what she is talking about because I can eat the whole world and won't gain an ounce but, I swear it's annoying how I must always 'BUMP UP HER SELF ESTEEM'
I eventually moved to the other side of the table because she also spreads her misery.
The day before I moved:

"You know even if you are skinny, you can have a heart attack and die."
I know that is true but still.SO nasty to say.My reply:
"I have a fast matabulism[spl?]"
"Oh you can die,just like if you are fat."
"Um whatever..I'm not dying soon."

It seems she is obsessed with being skinny[but not making an attept.]
And bringing people down about things.Like me dying.
Today I was talking about my dream;which was about someone robbing my house and then they shot me and my sister.Stabbed my mom and dad.
She put her big mouth in and said:
"That means your gunna die ahahahahahah."
My reply-
"No.It means the oppisite.My dad told me."
Her-
"Oh well we are all gonna die eventually anyways."
Me-
"Um..thanks.I needed that burst of emoness in my life,Christina."

 

Girls confuse the hell out of me. Mood swings for no reason...well there is a reason sometimes...but I don't think I should- I'll stop myself right now. But with girls, honestly I think that you just get lucky. Guys aren't confusing.

 

It's called:

MOTHER NATURES GIFT TO ALL FEMALES.​

 

Sounds like you should punch her in the cock.

 

Oh.mai.gawd.
Your totally on the mark man!

Can't wait until dodge ball baby.