By what you are saying here, I see this as a case of when the baby bird is ready to fly away from the nest. Your sister is angry and doesn't want to be bossed around, doesn't want to work with the family in some things and feels she has a right to hit your mother and in her way proclaim a dominance. This does sadly mean that she may have to move out in order to keep the family from totally separating on the issue. What I mean by this is if she left, things would cool down and she would fix her attitude up in the real world without mom and dad protecting her and your parents would get to calm down as would you. It could also just mean that there had to be a big fight in the family to cool down ego. With your mom's threat and possibly your dad backing it, because certainly most families won't let a kid hit the parent or they are gone, your sister has to now think. Does she want to move out or is she going to calm herself and accept that she's not 'queen bee' right now? If she thinks she is going to be a dominating force like that in the family, the reality is that your parents aren't going to let that happen. They have no reason to as it is their place. So, if she does calm down and see it was wrong to hit and get in a fisty-cuff with your mom, maybe they can work this out. I don't know if the parents would want to work it out if she's not wanting to be forgiven and actually is apologetic. However, on the positive here, if she did have to leave, it does not mean you could not visit her and your niece. It also doesn't mean that she won't be fine if she finds a stable place to go. In time also, I'm sure your parents would let up on their grudges. Most parents have to. They can't just keep being angry at the kid because hell, all kids and parents have it out sometimes. Does your sister's boyfriend have a place by any chance or is he still living with his parents? I do hope whatever happens, things calm down for you and your family. I'm sure your mother and father would not want your sister to leave into the unknown, but at the same time she is making things very hard on herself and them by pushing so much. Sometimes a big blowout like this can get people talking though. It seems your parents and your sister have some issues they do need to straighten out with one another. If they cannot though, do not feel you are losing your sister or niece. Both will still be in your life and though it's painful, it may be your sister's time to get out of there. I will hope for you it isn't since you seem to want her to stay even if she is being very argumentative. Hope this helped at all. It's definitely not easy what you are going through. I've kind of been through it myself in some ways and in the end it turned out for the better, even if at first I thought it sucked. So hang in there. About the only thing I think you can do is to perhaps try to encourage the parents and sister to talk it out since you are stuck on the outside.
After the people who have posted here feel that the situations have been alleviated, this thread will be closed as it is preferred people be able to post their own threads here if there are problems or to post in the Help With Life thread. Please, shadow of sephiroth, do not make specified threads like this anymore. This is for people to post who have problems, not for people to post they will solve problems. Anyone can help anyone else.
Do you have your dirty shoes on that couch???? You won't be smiling long when your parents kick you off there.
L = Repliku Light = Pyro Mello = ICSP Misa = Heartless_Vice Near = Haseo Unless of course others don't join :(
Confirmations: * Pika_Power was not killed. * Envy was killed by the use of his first real name. Very astute detective.
I did like that skin and also the one we had former to this white one. If we could get those two back as options that would be sweet. I know we should be getting a new skin though with the new year but it would be a cool deal if we could reinvent and spruce up the two former ones and leave this for an option for people who like white.
I dunno. Now we drag some others in here and make them have their title names and we get some pictures up of DN and yeah... I don't know what else we do. Maybe we harass the Law Firm.
Oh noes. Now all I have to do is wait for Absol...never mind.
L = Repliku Light = Pyrɸ Who else will join our fun little group!
