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    I'm going to close this because this is an area for people celebrating holidays. It's not an area to bash religions or beliefs or debate.
    Post by: Repliku, Dec 19, 2008 in forum: The Spam Zone
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    Closing this. Glad you were able to get the problem sorted.
    Post by: Repliku, Dec 19, 2008 in forum: Technology
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    I'll make a note that this is missing but it may take a while for us to get them up. Best thing I could suggest is try checking youtube out or bluelaguna.com. Hope you find what you need.
    Post by: Repliku, Dec 19, 2008 in forum: Technology
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    First, I'd check the connections physically to make sure they are all plugged in well. Sometimes color tint issues have to do with something not being properly connected, so actually physically check them out, unplugging and replugging them tightly.

    Next, make sure your tv is compatible with the PS3. Then check the settings and follow Roxas Sora51's info. See if those work. Good luck!
    Post by: Repliku, Dec 19, 2008 in forum: Technology
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    Are you an admin there? If not, send a message to someone there and go ahead and put what you did here. It may help them out on banning the bots you are dealing with. They will naturally look for clues of things that are similar and may be able to ban and block people based on this sort of information. Many of these bots tend to use proxies with a variety of ips so giving them the name here of Nexonkiller.net will help them to look up ips from that source and they may be able to ban the block this server network uses. There are ip checkers out there that could come up with that info. If you are an admin there, perhaps we could help more but there's nothing for a member to do but report them and the info you have.
    Post by: Repliku, Dec 19, 2008 in forum: Discussion
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    That advertisement is kind of sexy.
    Post by: Repliku, Dec 19, 2008 in forum: The Spam Zone
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    Doing fine. sup?

    Doing fine. sup?
    Profile Post by Repliku for Zeonark, Dec 19, 2008
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    o.o Heylo there.

    o.o Heylo there.
    Profile Post by Repliku for ♦Demon♥Angel♦, Dec 19, 2008
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    Wow, you're right. It is KH-Vids' birthday today! *tosses confetti*
    Post by: Repliku, Dec 19, 2008 in forum: The Spam Zone
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    Actually yes you should ask this in the Code Vault. They might be able to help you there more than here and any code questions go there. I'm going to close this since it's in the wrong area.
    Post by: Repliku, Dec 19, 2008 in forum: Kingdom Hearts HD II.5 ReMIX
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    There are times we all feel 'invisible' and where well, we just aren't making much progress with things. Also, sometimes it feels like people are drifting away. In life, sometimes people do drift away and move on, but there are also times where people are around and not going anywhere in the immediate.

    Thing thing I would suggest here is that you value your friendships and have some good times with the friends you have. Also, be amiable and you'll meet new friends. There will also be some very close friends you can have and those are special. Life moves like water and in a way I tend to think of myself as a fish in the water, where I meet others at times and we pal around, sometimes even making a whole school, and at other times, I roam on alone flowing onward. If you value and treasure those people in your life when things are good, you won't forget them and some you can hang onto. Those you can't, well..at least there are memories. This is a personal thing to well, adjust to and figure out it's just part of life.

    Sometimes friends get hurt or upset and we can try to help and involve ourselves but they don't seem so keen on it. When a person is down and not reaching out, they are in a personal battle with themselves. Sometimes that battle must go on inside them and those people just need time to sort things out. We as friends to them may feel useless, but the thing we can do sometimes that is best is just to be there and not say anything or try to force them to talk about it. Instead try doing some other things with them and well, just being there. Maybe that will help you some. Tell them if they ever do want someone to listen, you will, but then let it go and try doing some better more fun stuff with them.

    Maybe, since your friends are down and you are, you should try to not talk about the problems but instead do some other things together to get your minds off them. As for your bf, why can't you talk to him if he is your bf? Sounds kind of odd.

    I hope things will get better for you. Hang in there.
    Post by: Repliku, Dec 19, 2008 in forum: Help with Life
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    Version 3 is up now so have fun guys! Closing this now.
    Post by: Repliku, Dec 19, 2008 in forum: Forum Families
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    You aren't a loser for making this thread. A lot of people have felt down on themselves and quite a few people have some crappy self-esteem issues. I don't know anyone, even if they are 'popular' who doesn't from time to time have self-esteem issues. Just some people out there let this problem go on and on and it's hard to shake the habit of well..being disappointed and despising yourself.

    You are right that you won't be able to actually get help from anyone. We can all offer you advice and such but if you don't listen to it and just read the words and say 'sigh, that won't work' or 'they don't understand' ...well, we are left rather powerless. In the end, if you want to change how you feel about yourself, you will do it. If you do not want to, you will not.

    Yes, people around you who hear you talk about yourself like that probably do get frustrated with you, which causes you to feel more down and alone. You are in a pattern of self-destruction and this is what you might want to focus on understanding. Somewhere along the line, you got it in your head that you suck. Maybe from a friend, parents, a teacher, some bullies: Somewhere this feeling came about because someone got through to you that you did something bad or were acting out lamely at the time. Instead of taking it for the moment though, you've made a decision to say you always suck at things.

    In life, we are going to mess things up occasionally. I try to think of things as a state of the moment. I.e. if someone is lying at the time, the person is being a liar, whereas later, he won't be. If someone is yelling and griping, he is being a jerk at the time, etc. You can -be- so many things because we are all capable of it. However, states of being pass and we change. At one moment we may be losers in something. At another time, we may be really kicking some arse. If you try to think of life that way and yourself that way, having a low self-esteem may lessen for you. There may be the saying that there's always someone better than you, but there's also the saying that there's always someone worse than you. Basically, think of a momentary failure as what it is at the time. Let it pass and move on. See states of beings and moments of time.

    Also, of course people don't want to hear negative talk all the time about how you hate yourself. We all have to fight with failures and beating ourselves up for things isn't very good. There are plenty of people out there who are willing to help make us feel like crap. We don't have to let others do that to us, but surely most of us would rather not sit around and completely loathe ourselves too. We all have our things such as we are stuck with the bodies we have, but surprisingly with the right work, even people who are scarred can look better and those who are overweight or under weight can do things with effort to change that. Basically, we are more malleable than we think but we have to work some to accomplish things.

    Another thing to mention here... being depressed and self loathing like this is well... rather selfish. You may think that because you are beating up yourself and seeing all your faults that it makes you more humble and well, not an arrogant prick, but in the end, you are focusing your attention still all at yourself. If you look at the world around you more and well, start interacting with your friends some more and do some positive things, you might see that they'd react better to you. The problem here is well..do you want to do that? What others think of you is not so important. What you think about yourself is because if you choose to think of yourself as the greatest thing around, you are an arrogant stuck up snob and others probably won't like you much. If you look down on yourself you are selfish, self-torturing and negative about everything practically. Both are self-centered conditions where it's very hard to really understand other people because you can't understand yourself with a neutral mind. I hope that makes sense.

    I know how that goes. I had to move to Illinois to a dead end town that sucked and it was very hard to want to deal with because I left my best friend behind who is like a brother to me. However, I can say that if you keep in contact with your best friend, writing, emails, talking online etc and get to visit up there now and then, when you get out of school and such, you could always arrange to move back to NY later. That's what I did. I grew up here in NY till 10th grade and after I got out of the army, I came back since I felt it was more my home and I missed people here.

    Bullying is a tough thing to get over but you can. Best thing to remember about it is that you don't want to take bullying but also you don't want to become the bully either. If you get offended easily, you are giving into that sort of thing and most people will play around or say things accidentally so remember how you would feel if you were taken wrongly and it might help you so that you aren't offended so easily. If someone says something offensive, ask what they mean by it and try to think rationally about it. We can learn things from the past and develop good habits and bad ones. We can mold ourselves though over some bad habits by coming up with solutions ahead of time so we can address problems differently.

    You are negative right now so anything you do is not measuring up to what you want. You are being too hard on yourself. Girlfriends come around and happen. However, girls mostly seem to like guys that have self-confidence and aren't down on themselves. Would you want a girlfriend who is negative and is always saying she's fat or she can't accomplish anything, etc? Most of us would not want someone like that. It's not so different for girls. Basically, think of the type of girl you want and sometime it will happen if you can make yourself interesting to that type of girl.

    Friends are something to work on in the immediate. The more friends you make, the more likely sometime you'll meet a girl you would like as well. Also, it's just good to have friends. It will be rough since you've moved and miss things back at home but you are now in this new place and can make friends here too. There's nothing wrong with that. Having friends in different places is a good thing. You can keep some of them at least and maintain contact so that later you have places to go to and wander and well, it makes life more pleasant. Sadly, we must sometimes move on and our friends will too but if people want to keep in contact, as you get older, it becomes easier.

    As for your choice of occupation, feeling down again is not going to help you. In the end, everything comes down to this simple question...

    Why do you want to feel down about yourself?

    Because certainly you are not that bad a person. Please do answer the question if you can, even if just to yourself. There's no reason to hate yourself. We all screw up from time to time and well, we are supposed to learn from those mistakes...not punish ourselves for them. I do hope you will feel better about yourself. A lot of people assume you have to love every little thing about yourself, but that's not true either. Being at peace and knowing yourself though is important. Take the good and the bad. Understand at moments that 'bad' thing may actually be a good thing. Please do feel better and I hope this helped at all.
    Post by: Repliku, Dec 19, 2008 in forum: Help with Life
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    Since this thread is now over 5000 (no it's over 9000 jokes xD) if the creator of the thread would make a new thread, it would be greatly appreciated. When the new thread is made, please send me a PM so that I can close this one. Any questions, feel free to pm me.
    Post by: Repliku, Dec 19, 2008 in forum: Forum Families
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    I would try talking to your girlfriend mainly through this and find out what she and you want. If you both decide ultimately that you want to be together and to continue going out, you both need some teamwork to deal with this problem at hand.

    I would first say that Courtney - who likes your girlfriend sexually - may be prone to tell some tall tales to get you out of a relationship with Izzy. Now, if your girlfriend knows that Courtney is doing this crap to include calling your gf's mother, she should put her foot down and tell Courtney that she is not going to be friends with her if she can't get her mind out of 'liking' her. She needs to tell Courtney that she has no romantic interest in her at all and she is going out with you. If she needs some back up, you should go with her when she talks to Courtney and express that this is how it goes, but let your girl talk more because this is -her- issue and she has to come clean with her intentions. If that other girl doesn't back off, she has issues and your gf may have to make the decision of not wanting to hang around Courtney so much until she gets her head straight and accepts that you are her boyfriend and that's just how it is.

    As for Brandon, the same thing may have to happen that your gf with your support goes and tells Brandon straight up that she has no interest in him as a bf and she is happy with you and that you both are not going to break up over this. Brandon then should have the choice known to him as well that if he cannot be a 'friend' to you or her, he needs to step off and have a nice life.

    Basically, by talking this out and all, you make both of your positions clear and in the end, these people wouldn't like your gf so much if she'd just tell them to back off herself and make her feelings known. She may need your love and support but in the end, they aren't going to listen to you since they like -her-. If you go as support or support her from the sidelines it will help but she has to get brave and do this. So talking to her sincerely and asking her for some sort of plan of action on getting them to understand seems more critical than going and confronting either of these 2 by yourself. They are envious of you and in the end, to understand their position because she's not making herself clear or putting some ultimatums down, they think they stand a chance at getting with her. She's got to make herself clear to all 3 of you on what she wants. So encourage her to do that and well, get to know what's in her heart too. I wish you luck with this problem.
    Post by: Repliku, Dec 19, 2008 in forum: Help with Life