Welcome to KHV! It is very nice to have you join the family! ^^ Have fun here and make many new friends! See you around the forum! :)
Haha! Well I hope that you have a great day today! :D
Getting out of the shower to find there is no towel v.v
It's great that you have enjoyed it! Smile and make everyday great; freshmen year will go by quickly :)
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Hgood decision on taking classes over the summer. It helps a lot :D Yeah, it felt strange moving out of my home my first year, but after a few...
Haha! Yeah, after I posted on your profile I remembered that you were on vacation....I had just commented on your thread that said you were...
Wonderful to have you join the KHV family! Welcome! :) Hope that you will have fun here! See you around the forum!
I wish you the best on your first day! :)
Good to hear you are doing well :) College! Nice! I move into my dorm in September! Fun fun! Haha This your first year? I am doing lovely!...
Even though it only turned out to be an iOS version of the game, it was fun hyping about it while it lasted :P I have no shame! ^^ There still is that possibility of something big for TWEWY in the near future, but we won't know until the time comes. So until then, here's to hoping! :D
You are very welcome! ^^ And aww...thanks so much! I really like your avatar as well and that username!! Love it! Haha!
It's wonderful to have you join the KHV family, Nami! Welcome! I hope the you enjoy your time here and meet lots of cool people! See you around the forum!
It's very sad to see you leave us for a good while. I didn't really talk to you (and I feel awful about that), but you will be missed :) I wish you the best in college. You will have lots of fun.....but work hard! haha! See you when you return one day in the future! Best wishes to you! ^^
No worries about the length.....vent to us all you need to :) Even though you have already tried confronting your mother of the situation many times, it is always worth trying again. Maybe ask her why she is so overprotective of you. Hear her point of view before jumping to why you think you should have more freedom. Something could have possibly happened to her when she was younger and she wants to make sure it doesn't happen to you. Be open and understanding with your mom. I know you said that it is useless to tell her how you feel, but just let her know that you are 14 and should be able to have some privileges. Tell her to give you curfews for when to be home on week days and weekends. Maybe see if she will let you ride the bus with your friends 2 days during the week and she can take you the other 3. You could even include her in some activities so she doesn't feel that she is losing control of you. Give reason to why you deserve it. I am sure you work hard, are responsible, and are good to your mother, so why not? Social development is a big part of growing up, so you should be able to hang out with friends. Also, if it is hurting you to the point you are breaking down, she must know this. Going through family therapy may be in order. As for keeping your cell phone on during class, she needs to know that school is really important and it will reflect on your life majorly in the future. So getting in trouble over a cell phone isn't needed at this time of your life. If she still wants you to keep it on, talk to your teacher or to your guidance councilor about the situation and see if they will allow you to keep it on vibrate during class. If your mom has a close friend, you could even try talking to her about how you feel. See if maybe she can convince your mom "hintingly" to give you a bit more freedom. As for your home problem; you could try having a family sit down and talk about it. (but don't point fingers at particular people keeping the junk) Coming to an agreement about everyone keeping the house clean of junk would probably make the whole family feel better. The house would be more open and there would be more room for everyone. Setting up a chore list for everyone could be something you could do. If your mom starts to cry when you bring up your dad, tell her that it is only a thought at the moment. It isn't official. There could even be some connection between Problem 1 and Problem 2. Your mother may be overprotective for the reason that she doesn't want to lose you to your dad. So, she tries to keep you in her sight at all times. Also, you have the right to believe what you want to. So if you feel uncomfortable praying all the time, you shouldn't be forced to. You could try telling your dad that praying all the time isn't going to change what you believe. It only makes you feel uncomfortable and you don't want to feel that way. Come to terms with him that you will pray with him, but going to church makes you feel a bit uneasy since it isn't your belief. Religion is your own choice, so he really can't make you change if you don't want to. Hang in there! Things will get better over time :)
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All of the beautiful/handsome people here! My my!! So Jealous! It has been a while since I have posted so.... Spoiler Here's my not so happy kitty who got caught scratching the bathroom cabinet and me :D haha
That's good to hear :) Aw haha! Very thoughtful. It would be nice to get to know you as well!
I am doing quite well ^^ Thanks for asking! And yourself?
Hey there! :)
