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Yeah, I can take off some work.. but I want the money. New computer dreams for next month. *nod nod*

I wish I could do that.. I should dress up in a suit and tie just to look like him at least and be somewhat annoying so people just stare at me like wtf.

They all are more 'legitimate' looking and professional. That's for sure. haha

That was so evil to point out. xD

I have two weeks at least for it. I was so shocked I was picked considering I have piercings and red highlights in my hair and wear black.. yeah. I'm so the only one who doesn't look like the others.

Yeah, it's kind of a sad case and apparently will take at least 2 weeks. i was surprised they chose me considering I look nothing like the other...

I have jury duty for like 2 weeks. :/ Not so much fun but I guess it's a learning experience.

Doing fine, thanks. Sup?

I thought Styx was male all along.. I would have been more surprised to find out if he was a female. >.>

However, I hope that he gets better soon! Speedy recovery and best wishes, Styx.

It's going. Same ol school and work thang.

I could probably do it. How's it going?

Hey there, son. How's it going?

Ah, sorry, I'll respond to that when I'm more aware of life. I meant to and just did not get to it. >.>

Glad to see you, Absol. You are so missed around here.

Absol!!!~~~ Sup trouble?

I would say that you are blaming alcohol too much and not the people themselves for being stupid. Alcohol loosens up inhibitions but people already generally have some compulsions to doing things regularly, that they may hold back but are still there. The alcohol makes impulse choices more likely and if someone is thinking selfish, stupid, sexual, dangerous, etc impulse things, with alcohol dimming the sense of conscience, well.. yeah, stuff can happen.

The thing to do is to get used to what alcohol can do so you are more responsible when you do imbibe it. I have done my share of silly things on it (and off alcohol cuz I'm a funny person or something) but I always remember and know I am allowing myself to do it. People really can't just use alcohol as a reason behind actions they do or they are drinking for the wrong reasons. Maybe they want to use it for 'escapism' and such so they try hard to forget and claim they don't remember crap, and just do asshat things to other people because it's an 'excuse-. It's one of the reasons I think drinking and driving accidents should not be seen as 'involuntary' manslaughter but instead 'manslaughter' or even 'murder'. People know better than to do the deed yet they are selfish pricks so eh, I'd rather the book be thrown at them.

As for people that party hardy and such.. quite a few people go through that stage and some people are more harmful than others doing so. Most people outgrow it as they have more responsibilities as they grow older and also the body changes. Best thing to do is to avoid the harmful ones and be responsible yourself. Some people love to abuse things but in time again, they can and most likely will change and learn to drink more responsibly. They will brag etc but eh, different people enjoy different things. It's not more 'mature' or cool to get drunk off your gourd. It's just another phase some people choose to do for social relations.

In the end, if the girl who is claiming the guy did not stop and he's done this before to her.. yeah, she needs to first off stop hanging around that guy and sounds like she needs some counseling and help of some sort. She's the one I would worry about most and the others .. Also, the other girl needs to dump the idiot. They all need to realize that alcohol is -not- an excuse that is viable and they are still responsible for what they do. If they want to get drunk, fine, but no one should go hurting someone else because they are drunk. The guy has no reason he cannot understand the word 'no', whether drunk or sober, other than the fact he does not want to hear it so he chooses to ignore it. He obviously doesn't give a real crap about the other girl either. That's my thought on it anyway. Alcohol shouldn't be illegal because some ******s want to try to use it as a way to get out of trouble. The ******s who try that should be in trouble.

University isn't that hard. You can pick what you want to focus on more and do classes you can enjoy. Some people do need a year away to gather up their minds and get in the right perspective but don't let uni scare you off because it can be somewhat demanding. Take it as a challenge instead and while you have time off, think of what you want to major in as an occupation. Finding a job can also help gear you to uni life as you learn more responsibility and you have to keep a schedule but it doesn't take so much brainpower to learn a job.

I've actually liked doing uni life more than I ever did High School (in the U.S.) as the subjects can be difficult at times but they are in areas I want to learn so at least I can keep focused more. Don't feel bad that you aren't ready yet as that can come to change. It seems to me like you are just burnt out from school but also note your friends have moved on to continue yet more schooling. As said, sometimes a break is good, but don't take too long and think about what you do want to do for a career. Look into things and explore as you find a job and work that at a casual pace so that perhaps next year you can enroll and you don't stress out too much.

I wish you the best and hope things come together for you. Do you have any ideas now on what you might want to do? Talking to a university counselor/aid may also assist you.

This is kind of just a hormonal crush thing and she's very emotional and needs to get a bit more grounded in things. To me.. if he only likes 'tart' girls, as said above, that's a warning sign that he's probably too young to want a decent girlfriend. Also, you mentioned he already has a girlfriend who may complain she wants to break up with him, but she's still going out with him. Crushes are things we all have to deal with and get used to and sometimes it's better to look and admire but leave it alone. If she really wants to ask the guy out, she is going to have to gear herself to do, but her reluctance is for a reason, other than just her insecurity. She may want to listen to her intuition, rather than catering to a crush. Some people look -really- good but you should not touch with a 10 foot pole.

Having said that, maybe you should see if this girl he's going out with fits a 'tart' girl description and see how he does act, before going to help her more. The best advice I'd say is if she really wants to go out with him she's going to have to pony up and just ask him. I always tend to tell people not to write notes because sometimes a person will use them against the other person to hurt him/her and show it around. If he has a gf already, that's a worse situation. She may at least want to hold off asking until he and this girl have broken up. I'm not much help I guess on crushes as most of the time if they are not mutually felt, such as he's deleting her comments etc.. it usually ends up not being an equal relationship to begin with, if it happens. If she does by some chance, go to asking him, she should make sure before she says 'yes' to him that at least he broke up with the other girl so he's not just playing the field. Your description of how he is and how she is though, just sends bad vibes to me in which I would feel it better that she just hold off.

Stupid bashing thread is stupid. Going to close this before it evolves into something else. Daxma, PM me or another staff member if you have a problem. Same goes to The Muffin Man. Let's not do call out threads.

I cannot help it. You are such a girly looking man that does manly man things. >.>