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  1. Lauriam I hope I didn't keep you waiting...

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    Yeah, who knows? I don't know. Are you creepy? Are you not creepy? I don't know. We'll just have to find out for ourselves, won't we? *shrugs shoulders* I don't know if you're creepy or not. I'm not even sure what I'm saying at this point. XD

    On the contrary, I find that adding a smiley at the end of a text can influence the attitude of said text. Since, in a post or a text, there is no tone of voice by which you can judge a persons' intentions, you have to rely on your perception alone. If there's a smiley, however, you can know that the person doing the correcting is not offended, angry, or upset, merely trying to clear up a simple misunderstanding.

    For example, I am neither offended, nor angry, nor upset in any way. So by adding a smiley, I can assure you that I am not trying to yell at you, and I am in no way trying to pick a fight. Just trying to clear up a small misunderstanding. :)

    Well then, that's probably not where I know you from. Ah well. :)
     
  2. Excasr The Forgotten XIII

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    Amaury is a stalker, o-nee-chan. But he's a good friend.
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    that was purposeful. Hehe
     
  3. Lauriam I hope I didn't keep you waiting...

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    Well then, if he is a stalker, then in that, we have something in common, as my official visits are not the only times I come to the forums. In fact, today was just going to be another "guest" visit, but I decided I wanted to post, so I actually logged on today. But believe me, I haven't missed a single post in the pirate thread, evern when I wasn't online. XD
     
  4. Soap Hollow Bastion Committee

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    So...........................you really haven't left, just been viewing as a guest....................do what????????
     
  5. Excasr The Forgotten XIII

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    So basically you basically traded 6 for half a dozen.
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  6. Lauriam I hope I didn't keep you waiting...

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    Haha, pretty much, I was spending on average 6 hours a day on KHV, and it was unhealthy, to say the least. So I "left," and have been devoting my time to attempts at bettering myself. But, when I have a few minutes to spare, I still get online and check how things are going, but since I don't log in, post, talk to people, and respond to threads, I don't spend as much time on here as I used to. So, I left, kind of. It's hard to explain. :P

    Haha, yeah, I guess so. XD
     
  7. Makaze Some kind of mercenary

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    Ah, but I am more often annoyed by the result than the intention. It does not matter what attitude you do an annoying thing with, it is still annoying. For instance, helping someone when they neither need nor want the help is annoying even though you know they just want to be helpful. Haven't you ever had someone who babied you, for instance, to your great annoyance? In those cases, the nicer someone is about it, the more annoying it is.

    You will avoid a lot of misunderstandings if you care less about intentions and more about actual results.
     
  8. Lauriam I hope I didn't keep you waiting...

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    Ah, so it's not a problem with the smiley at all, you're just annoyed that someone corrected you on something?
     
  9. Makaze Some kind of mercenary

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    More that someone corrected a typo. And more so that it is Amaury, because he meant it. Correcting a typo for humour is acceptable. Doing it to take a peg down on me is also acceptable. Actually correcting it as if it is worth correcting or as if it is actually a favor to me is annoying. I do not correct others' typos myself, as rigorous as I am.
     
  10. Amaury Chaser

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    If you have an issue with me, talk to me in private about it. If you feel it's a bigger issue, contact the staff.

    No need to make it public.
     
  11. Lauriam I hope I didn't keep you waiting...

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    Meh, I don't have time to get into a debate right now.
     
  12. Makaze Some kind of mercenary

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    I am rather in favor of public discourse, and the problem was not worth bringing up but Marushi pressed it.

    Then you shouldn't have bothered to challenge me. Please do not waste my time.
     
  13. Lauriam I hope I didn't keep you waiting...

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    I did not mean to challenge you, nor press any sort of problem. I was merely trying to clear up a simple misunderstanding. Hence the smiley face at the end of my post.

    Again, I am not trying to challenge you in any way with this post either, simply trying to clear up a simple misunderstanding. I'd give you a smiley face to prove my good intentions, but since that annoys you, you will simply have to take my word for it.
     
  14. Makaze Some kind of mercenary

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    I meant this post with the challenging bit, in which you generalized in what I think you yourself would consider a derogatory manner. To exemplify this, check the username in the quote and read it from that perspective:

    Do you see what I mean by challenging now?
     
  15. Excasr The Forgotten XIII

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    Are you guys discussing? D:
     
  16. Lauriam I hope I didn't keep you waiting...

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    Aye, I must admit, I was getting fairly angry with you by that time, and this question was meant in a derogatory manner. I sincerely apologize. However, to take a challenging post from the middle of an argument and to say that it was the cause of said argument is a far stretch. You brought up the smiley, and when I tried to clear it up, (admittedly overstepping my bounderies, as it was not my issue to try and solve,) you came back with an argumentative response, after which, and not before, I posted the above statement. The challenging and derogatory statement I made (although unneccesary and quite uncalled for) was not "pressing the issue," but rather, a continuation of the issue you had already pressed.

    lol, yeah, I guess we were. :oops:

    Sorry, Excasr. I'll stop now. :)
     
  17. Excasr The Forgotten XIII

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    Don't fight guys, Marushi is paying us a visit! What kind of members are we!? And if someone disrespects my sis in a discussion will have to deal with me. ::L:

    Noooes. It's already 9:37 PM. ;-;
     
  18. Lauriam I hope I didn't keep you waiting...

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    9:37 PM!?! Excasr, go to bed! Don't you have school in the morning?

    And now that my Big Sis moment is over, don't worry about me, lil' bro. I can take care of myself adequately enough. I don't want you to get into trouble for my sake. But you're right, I shouldn't be arguing with anybody.

    Makaze, sorry for the challenging/derogatory post, and Amaury, sorry for stepping into an issue that wasn't mine to press or solve. I probably made things pretty uncomfortable for you. :oops:
     
  19. Amaury Chaser

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    Meh, don't worry about it. It affected me 0%.
     
  20. Lauriam I hope I didn't keep you waiting...

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    Oh, good. Heh, I always stick my foot in my mouth in one way or another, I'm just glad I didn't hurt somebody this time. :)