Please help this poor fellow out!

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by Bond of Flame, Oct 8, 2008.

  1. Bond of Flame I'm an alien

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    Okay, there's this really hot girl at school, Lola. We are friends and all, but I wanna try my luck for once, maybe twice. How should I ask her out, I'm afraid I kinda screw up:o..
     
  2. Deathsight44 Kingdom Keeper

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    1st of all, this goes in help with life section.

    2nd, do you know how much she likes you? Ya think you'd have a good chance with her?
     
  3. Bond of Flame I'm an alien

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    Well, I think she likes me, but I just dunno if I'll have any chance with her...
     
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    How long have you known her for?
     
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    only thing that I think limits peopoe to who they can or can not get, is the way they act, and carry themselves.



    simply ask her out to a dinner and movie, its a classic "date" and gives time for you two to talk and stuff(dduring the dinner) and then if things hit off right during dinner, you can sit close and cuddle or whatever during the movie. Hold yourself confidently though. self confidence is very important though. Most girls dont like a guy whose all introverted and conciencious or scared over everything. They want someone who will take their hand.
     
  6. Deathsight44 Kingdom Keeper

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    u godda bring it on lightly with her.

    If you want my advice, then, try starten out with somethen that your good at. What kind of stuff are you good at?
     
  7. Bond of Flame I'm an alien

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    meh, about 1 year or so.

    Well I rock at a game of arm-wrestle!
     
  8. robert the yogurt Traverse Town Homebody

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    Just go up to her act shy tell her you like her, compliment her and walk away. Thats what most people do. I've never tried it but I've seen others pull it off.
     
  9. Deathsight44 Kingdom Keeper

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    Dude, arm wrestling with the girl you like doesn't care. It has to some how involve something that you both can do together (in a sense). What kind of stuff are you good at that requires you to have to leave your house?
     
  10. Bond of Flame I'm an alien

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    ah... eehm... well, I'm pretty good at bowling.
     
  11. Deathsight44 Kingdom Keeper

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    bowlen is perfect. do u know if she is good or not
     
  12. Bond of Flame I'm an alien

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    Well, the whole school went bowling on a schooltrip once, and yeah, she's pretty good.
     
  13. Deathsight44 Kingdom Keeper

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    Dam >.>

    well, ur best bet would be for you not to start out with asken her to go out with you, but instead, just ask her if she feels like goin bowlen with you, ya know. It wouldn't be an offical date, but it would sort of be like that. Then depending on how she reacts, that is when you come back and try and take things from there. But that is the best way to sort of get things goin. Think of it like putting on ur condom b4 gettin intimate with ur girl, lol
     
  14. HellKitten Kingdom Keeper

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    Make it classy. Something simple such as going to see a movie. I wouldn't go for dinner. Some girls are shy about eating in front of others. I'm exactly like that. I don't like to eat in front of other people much.
     
  15. Bond of Flame I'm an alien

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    Thanks dude, I'll try it once.
     
  16. tSG1 Chaser

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    Simple dinners work best or activity. If she rejects you (which i hope not) then don't try again. She'll probably get pissed or start accusing you of stalking her.