"I feel like everyone hates me..."

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  1. jojoj13 Hollow Bastion Committee

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    That's what everyone feels like when they are new to a group, website, etc.

    Did any of you people felt like that too?

    If so, why?
     
  2. Misty gimme kiss

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    Everybody feels like that at one point. You just have to find some people that you relate to, make some friends, and don't look/seem too desperate.
     
  3. len Gummi Ship Junkie

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    i felt like that when i first joined cause i knew no one if you meet some friends then you won't feel like that again ^^
    (not pointed to you it's for everyone who feels that way :3)
     
  4. Repliku Chaser

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    As others have said, anyone can feel that way at times because just things aren't going so well. I am going to move this to Help with Life though as it fits there more.
     
  5. Fallen King Kingdom Keeper

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    I felt that one time, but I asked everyone, and they said that they didn't, I'm sure everybody feels that at some time, but it is natural to think that.
     
  6. timeless Traverse Town Homebody

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    I still do, in real life and on the webs. All you have to do is find somebody else who seems to be in the same situation as you and just start talking to them.
     
  7. myoblivion King's Apprentice

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    When I first joined I felt...More alone, and nervous then hated.
    Just because when I joined, I was new to role-playing, new to video games and this was the first...Fourm Ive ever joined.
    But feeling hated comes up with me...Not casual but frequantly..I suppose
     
  8. len Gummi Ship Junkie

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    oh yeah and you should find a person that would get you throw all the being new and makes you feel a bit welcome ^^
    the one who got me through was timeless
     
  9. Radiowave ITSA PIIINCH

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    I don't mean to look like a jerk, but no, i've never felt like that...maybe because i'm slightly more mature...?

    But usually its younger kids who are new to the "internetz" and feel like they should act out, so people slam them even though its kind of wrong...on both sides. With new users who act like that, I usually just patiently tell them to stop so they never get the feeling I hate them or something...
     
  10. Axelrific Banned

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    I didn't felt like that when I graduated to 7th grade and met new persons and neither when i join forums.
     
  11. Near-to-Tears Hollow Bastion Committee

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    I've never felt hated on the internet. I find it very hard to get strong negative vibes from someone over type, friends I can make luckliy. I just don't make enemies as far as I know. I don't really feel hated anywhere, I just feel... not cared about if anything. Like they don't like me and don't hate me. They just nothing me. And I don't mind that on the fourms I'm on, I just don't like it when I see the people nearly everyday.
     
  12. Xaale Sylph of Hope

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    I sometimes feel like that at school and other places, too. Even here sometimes, lol. Sometimes I feel that people hate me D: but not really hate, maybe just dislike
     
  13. Wisdom Form Guy Hollow Bastion Committee

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    It is ok!I was new in Aug. 2007 and I knew no one.But once I got used to people,I was well known.;)

    Patience is the key to this.:)
     
  14. Tammylita Destiny Islands Resident

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    Heh...I actually do (all the time). :P But I know it's probably not true, or at least I hope so...
     
  15. Xaale Sylph of Hope

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    *hugs Tammylita* it isn't true D: I don't hate you and I think the same for most others on the forum. How would I know every persons' opinion, lol
     
  16. Arc Kingdom Keeper

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    hell I still feel like that sometimes lol. it's normal and natural to feel like that at one time or another.
     
  17. Xephos Neko, gamer, animelover, and artist :3 *purrs*

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    Yes I felt that way when I first joined a group. They give me stares, sneer at me, and then whisper to one another "Hey look, another noob who doesn't know a damn thing". I then get angry and then snap at them and then we both never talk and usually it's all against me one time. It usually happens until you're well known.
     
  18. Wisdom Form Guy Hollow Bastion Committee

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    It sure is!I sometimes feel left out when I don't get included in something.It really makes me wanna break my computer.Ah well.
     
  19. Fayt-Harkwind Where yo curly mustache at?

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    I felt like that when i left myth war since everyone did hate me lol
     
  20. Wisdom Form Guy Hollow Bastion Committee

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    What do you mean?I feel sorry for people who get hated on.:(
     
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